Do you tend to feel bad when a man begs and grovels? Are you against holding grudges? Should we give men more chances?

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Does rejection make you spiral? Should women stop being old-fashioned and just make the first move on a man? Should we reject men before they reject us?

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Is it too late to find 'the one'? What does it really mean when men call a woman 'expired'? Are men worth longing for?

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Have you ever considered or questioned the politics behind your romantic desires? Is a man's attraction to you political? Do our dating preferences change with our politics?

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Do you see marriage for the negotiated contract that it is, or do you see marriage as a purely spiritual union, devoid of any power dynamics or transactions? Does the idea of marriage being compared to s*x work offend you, or do you see the ways women are expected to perform sexual and domestic labour as a 'duty'? Do married women actually benefit from marriage?

In a rather contentious and controversial episode, join Chidera as she dives deeper on her perspective that marriage to straight men is the lowest paid form of s*x work.

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What's all the hype surrounding dating younger men? Are older men a better option? Should there be an age limit for age gap relationships?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses her preference - and why neither option is necessarily 'easier'.

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Are you trapped in a redundant loop of making the same mistake? Does your impulsivity betray you? Are you finally ready to leave your destructive life behind?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the pitfalls of repeating the same mistakes women often make - and why feminism might be adding to your problems here.

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Are you off to see that man? Do you feel tempted to make it easier for him? Is your gut reliable enough for you to be dating right now?

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Is he stingy or does he just not like you? What happens if you have kids with a stingy man? Should we cheat on stingy men?

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Do you miss him? Has the amnesia suddenly hit you and now you can't remember why you cut him off to begin with? Are you tempted to go back?

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