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The Sobriety Backlash: Why Sober Men Are Being Labeled 'Extreme'


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Apparently, choosing not to drink now makes you controversial.

In this episode, Shane dives into the cultural weirdness around sobriety — why quitting alcohol freaks people out more than drinking too much, how clear-headed men are suddenly being called "radical," and what this says about masculinity, culture, and freedom in 2025.

From The Guardian's recent article "Mocktails for MAGA: Why the US Right Is Turning Sober" to the growing trend of men reclaiming their focus, faith, and families, Shane breaks down why a simple glass of sparkling water can now spark a political debate.

You'll laugh, shake your head, and probably think twice about why society celebrates dysfunction and ridicules discipline.

Because here's the truth, sobriety isn't extreme. It's clarity. It's leadership. It's power. And in a world that glorifies chaos, staying sober might just be the most rebellious move you can make.

Key Takeaways

  • Don't let culture define your character — "normal" isn't always right.
  • True masculinity isn't about how much you can drink, but how much you can carry.
  • Staying sober isn't weakness — it's the foundation of real freedom and clarity.
  • Join the Movement

    If you're ready to level up your mind, health, and leadership:

    Join our free men's community — The Victory Circle — where sober, high-performing men are redefining what strength looks like.

    Or if you're ready to go deeper, apply for 1-on-1 coaching and build a system to help you quit drinking and win long-term.

    Links are in the show notes below.

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    https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/oct/09/trump-maga-alcohol-drinking


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