The Susan Winter Show

Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here’s how to get what you truly want…

1.    Consider the past- positive or negative

2.    Are there lingering unresolved issues?

3.    Do they care to try again?

Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here’s how to get what you truly want…

1.    Consider the past- positive or negative

2.    Are there lingering unresolved issues?

3.    Do they care to try again?

We often hear it said that you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. But is that true? And, what about your partner? Can they love you if they don’t love themselves? Here’s the surprising answer: 

1.    How do you know if you love yourself?

2.    How do you know if your partner loves themselves?

3.    How important are these two factors in a relationship?

4.    What’s the line between narcissism and self-love?

Blindsided Breakup? Do This…

What’s the quickest way to bounce back from a blindsided breakup? How do you heal from your partner’s betrayal and sudden exit? Here’s how to fast-track your recovery from the breakup you never saw coming: 

The shock of a sudden breakup can feel excruciating. The betrayal of trust and confusion is overwhelming, as is the question of how to survive this shocking ending. Blindsided breakups are one of the hardest to process. But there is a quicker way to heal. Here’s the fast-track to recovery:

1.    Processing the Extreme Duality

2.    Reviewing the Breakdown for Clues

3.    Reframing the ‘Perfect Partner’

How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here’s how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease.

Wondering if your player has any real feelings for you? Here’s what you need to know about your hot and cold player, and how they play the game.

 

The reality of dating a player can be excruciating. Their attention is intoxicating. It seemed like they truly cared… Until they didn’t. You can often get hung up and wondering if they ever cared at all. Here is the better line of thinking to assist you in your recovery and future partnerships.

1.      You Can’t Change a Player

2.      Assessing What Really Happened

3.      Charting a Course Forward

Have you fallen for the “Spiritual Player?” You may think you want a spiritual partner— but what you’re really requesting is ethical behavior and higher standards. Here’s the test:

1. You assume the realm is “safe” – not so. 

2. Know your ‘why.’ What’s the real reason behind your request? 

3. Beware of spiritual gaslighting. You’ll be blamed as being “less spiritual” for having a reaction to their bad behavior.

Struggling to find love? Frustrated, exhausted and in need of hope? Learn the structure and tools that enable you to get the love you want from the first date onward.

These are the foundational principles:

1.    Hope:

2.    Filtering: 

3.    Communication:

4.      Process:

Is it your first love (and first breakup)? Or is it the first time you let yourself fall in love? Recovering from this type of heartache requires these tools: 

1.     Accepting it’s over

2.     Separating ‘the dream’ from reality

3.     Trust LIFE to bring you love again.

What is the ‘3-6-9 Rule’ for relationships and why is it crucial for finding a lasting love? Here's how evaluating your relationship at each segment of time will reveal key insights that guide you in determining if this is your ‘person.' 

3. The Discovery Phase: The first three months are a period of discovery and assessment. Here is where you assess your level of attraction and compatibility. 

 

6. The Bonding Phase: This phase is marked by the deepening of your emotions for each other and the strengthening of your relationship. 

 

  9. The Evaluation Phase: This is the phase where you begin to determine the long-term potential of this person.