Ian and I explore what it’s like when both people in a relationship are neurodivergent. We dive into how that shared understanding can create a unique bond—sometimes, your partner just gets it without you needing to explain. Whether it’s recognising when you’re overwhelmed, understanding sensory needs, or knowing how to support each other during a meltdown, there’s a natural connection that can feel incredibly validating.

But it’s not always smooth sailing. Ian opens up about the moments when over-communication becomes necessary, how giving each other space is just as important as staying connected, and how these dynamics require constant growth and mutual respect. We also talk about the ways neurodivergent relationships can thrive and how to navigate the challenges that come with different neuro-types interacting in close, emotional spaces.

Beyond personal experiences, we dive into how friends, family, and communities can better support neurodivergent couples. We share practical ideas on how to create more inclusive, understanding environments for those in neurodiverse relationships—because having the right support system makes all the difference.

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In this episode of The Unfinished Idea, I sit down with Mona, host of NeuroDiverseLove, to dive into everything—and I mean everything—about relationships through a neurodiverse lens. If you’ve ever wondered how neurodivergence can shape love, connection, and communication, this conversation is for you.

Mona shares her personal experiences and the lessons she’s learned along the way, offering insights that will resonate whether you’re neurodivergent yourself or in a relationship with someone who is. We talk about the different needs people have in relationships, how communication styles can vary, and the unique challenges and joys that come with neurodiverse connections. You’ll walk away feeling seen, understood, and maybe even with a few new tools in your back pocket.

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In this episode I sit down with Marcy Caldwell, @dr.marcycaldwell to dive into the beautiful complexities of relationships when neurodivergence is part of the picture. We explore the unique strengths and challenges that neurodivergent individuals bring to relationships—whether romantic, familial, or friendships. Marcy shares her personal experiences and wisdom on how neurodivergent brains can foster deep connections, creativity, and resilience, while also navigating struggles like communication differences, emotional regulation, and misunderstandings.

We discuss how these dynamics play out in various types of relationships, offering insights into embracing both the joys and the tough moments. You’ll hear about the unique strengths neurodivergent individuals bring to relationships, the common struggles they face, and practical ways to navigate them with compassion. Marcy opens up about her own journey, sharing relatable stories and lessons learned along the way.

It was a fun, heartfelt conversation packed with practical takeaways for anyone in or supporting neurodivergent relationships.

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In this episode, I have the absolute pleasure of speaking with Catie, @catie,mchardy, a mother of four neurodivergent children, each with their own distinct needs and personalities. Catie’s household is a whirlwind of energy, love, and unique challenges that come with raising a family where every member is on their own neurodivergent journey.

Catie shares the story of how, during the process of her daughter’s autism and ADHD diagnosis, she had an epiphany: she, too, was Autistic and ADHD. We discuss the complexity of navigating life with multiple neurodivergent individuals in one household, and how even though they share similar diagnoses, each person’s experience is deeply personal and different.

We dive into the realities of transitions in a neurodivergent home—what works, what doesn’t, and how family dynamics shift when everyone is navigating their own sensory processing, routines, and emotional needs. We also talk about the joys, the struggles, and the magic that comes with embracing neurodivergence as a family unit. This conversation is both insightful and incredibly relatable for anyone living in a neurodivergent household, and it’s filled with humor, heart, and hope.

If you’re a parent of neurodivergent children, or you’re simply curious about what life is like in a family where everyone’s brain works a little differently, this episode is for you.

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In this episode, I sit down with Leighanne, @projectyouacademy, a fitness and life coach who brings a unique perspective to wellness by incorporating neurodivergent (ND) focus into her approach. We talk about what it really looks like to take care of our physical bodies—especially for those of us who are neurodivergent.

Leighanne shares her insights on the challenges neurodivergent people face when it comes to fitness, health, and overall well-being. She also talks about the toll being neurodivergent can take on our bodies, and how important it is to listen to our physical needs. From practical tips to real-life examples, Leighanne offers actionable advice on how neurodivergent people can navigate their fitness journeys in ways that feel sustainable and empowering.

We also discuss how friends, family, and communities can better support ND individuals in their fitness and wellness goals. Leighanne’s approach is both compassionate and realistic, and I left this conversation feeling inspired and informed. If you're someone who wants to better understand how neurodivergence affects physical health, or if you're a fitness enthusiast looking for ways to support neurodivergent individuals, this episode is a must-listen!

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In this episode, I sit down with Claire @athenticallyyouspeach to talk about one of the most important—and often overlooked—topics for parents of neurodivergent children: self-care. Claire shares some insightful thoughts on how even small moments of self-care can make a big difference for parents, helping them stay regulated and better equipped to support their children.

We dive into what self-care can look like, especially for parents juggling the unique challenges of raising neurodivergent kids. Clare shares some real-life examples and strategies that have worked for families she’s worked with, and we talk about how being in a good, regulated place ourselves allows us to be more present and effective for our children.

Claire also highlights the importance of community and how having a strong village can make all the difference in maintaining mental and emotional health as a parent. It was such a powerful conversation, and Clare’s insights into how taking care of our mental health can have a ripple effect on the whole family are incredibly inspiring. If you're a parent or caregiver looking for practical self-care strategies, this episode is for you!

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In this episode, I sit down with Debbie, a mom who shares her powerful and heartfelt journey of supporting her daughter through autistic burnout. For over three years, Debbie has navigated the ups and downs of this experience, and she opens up about the struggles her family has faced.

We discuss the challenges her daughter encountered in school, the overwhelming uncertainty of not knowing how to help, and the difficult realities that come with advocating for a child in burnout. Debbie’s story sheds light on how burnout impacts not only the individual experiencing it but the entire family.

Her honesty and vulnerability make this conversation both eye-opening and deeply relatable. From moments of heartbreak to hard-earned lessons, Debbie offers insights that will resonate with parents, caregivers, and anyone trying to understand the complexities of autistic burnout.

This is a must-listen for anyone feeling overwhelmed, seeking connection, or wanting to better support their neurodivergent loved one. Tune in to hear Debbie’s inspiring story and find comfort in knowing you’re not alone.

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In this episode, I have a heartfelt conversation with Kelsey about Autistic burnout—a topic that is often overlooked but profoundly affects many in the neurodivergent community. Kelsey shares from her own personal experiences with burnout, shedding light on what it looks like and how it can impact every aspect of life.

We also dive into practical strategies for managing burnout, including Kelsey’s innovative product, the Calm Crate—a thoughtfully designed toolkit to help people when they’re feeling dysregulated or overwhelmed. Kelsey graciously opens up about her journey and the realities of living with burnout, offering valuable insight into how others can better understand and support those going through similar experiences.

This episode is an honest and inspiring conversation about self-care, resilience, and the importance of understanding burnout from a neurodivergent perspective. If you’ve ever experienced burnout or know someone who has, this episode will offer useful tools and compassionate advice.

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In this episode, I sit down with Sass, @emotionallycoaching to talk about the experience of feeling overwhelmed, especially from the perspective of a neurodivergent person. We dive into the unique signs and triggers that can lead to overwhelm, and Sass shares her wisdom on practical strategies for staying calm and grounded during these moments.

We also discuss how those around us—friends, family, colleagues—can provide better support when we’re feeling overwhelmed. This conversation was both insightful and eye-opening, and I personally walked away with a lot of valuable takeaways. If you’ve ever struggled with overwhelm or want to understand it better from a neurodivergent point of view, this episode is a must-listen!

This January, we're taking a moment to reset. Throughout the month, we'll explore the various ways neurodivergent individuals and their caregivers experience burnout. At the end of each episode, we'll share a moment or technique to help us all reset and recharge. Recognizing that everyone is unique, we'll present a range of strategies—because what works for one person might not resonate with another.

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Join us for a laid-back and shorter episode as Chris and Greer have a random chat to wrap up the year. In this conversation, we share some personal lessons learned and discuss the unique experience of raising a neurodivergent son. Chris opens up about the role of structure in his life and how it has shaped his journey.

It's a casual and slightly fun (beware of the dad jokes!) episode to end the year on a lighthearted note.

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