Lisa Schwartz, author, actress, and Youtube personality, tells Damona about the time when her boyfriend came out as gay to his six million YouTube fans and the subsequent crisis that inspired her new book, "Thirty-Life Crisis." Damona and Lisa also cover headlines such as: Emma Watson is self-partnered (not single), is your dating app giving you a disease, and are people really logging into their ex's Instagram? Plus they answer listener questions such as how long after dating should you expect a commitment and how can you tell if a woman really likes you?

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