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My guest this week on Thrive Solo is British country singer-songwriter, Harley Moon Kemp, who also happens to be the daughter of Spandau Ballet’s Martin Kemp, and Shirlie Kemp of both Pepsi and Shirlie, and Wham. 

Harley Moon appeared in last year’s Celebrity Race Across The World with her brother, Roman Kemp, and not only did they appear in it, but they won it. I’m sure many of you will have seen it and subsequently heard Harley Moon mention her happily single status. 

In this episode, Harley Moon and I talk about how she ended up getting into country music in particular and what she loves most about that genre; we talk about how she is absolutely loving single life right now; we talk about how her parents very happy marriage has impacted what she wants and expects from a relationship. We also discuss the shift in the dating scene in her generation, how people are no longer going out to meet people in the way they used to, and how dating as a high profile person can present its own challenges. 

02:15 Meet Harley Moon Kemp

03:45 Harley Moon's Musical Journey

06:00 Discovering Country Music

14:47 Embracing Single Life

23:49 The Modern Dating Scene

31:07 The Inspiration Behind 'My Girls (Love Me Better)'

32:45 Reflecting on the song 'I Know What Good Looks Like'

35:12 Personal Reflections on Relationships

38:43 Living with Intention and Positivity

47:29 The Adventure of 'Race Across the World'

54:43 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Follow Harley Moon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harleymoonkemp

Listen to Harley Moon on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/7lTrAtvHlfVsJZgXMMR05X

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On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking all about the patriarchy.

This social system that historically centres white men as the default holders of power, money, status and authority, is woven into the very fabric of society.

It shows up in a million subtle - and not so subtle - ways: women playing small because they’ve been taught to be pleasing, quiet, polite and accommodating; women taking on the ‘invisible load’ of housework and kid-min; women being put down at work or at home because of the inherent and subconscious belief that men are somehow superior.

In this conversation, Polly and I talk about how the patriarchy has shown up in our own lives, as well as how things are so much worse for women in other countries and cultures. And this is exactly why women need to start speaking up and standing up for both themselves, and the many, many women who are less fortunate than those of us in western cultures.

We hope you’ll find something interesting in here.

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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My guest on this week's episode of Thrive Solo, is the gorgeous Sarah Bennett, a single and childfree sober coach living in Hertfordshire. In her 30s, Sarah felt under huge pressure to find a partner and have children. As friends settled down and started families, she often felt left behind. In trying to numb the loneliness and deep sense of inadequacy she felt, Sarah’s drinking steadily increased. But instead of helping, it left her feeling lower and more depressed, with hangovers that made her feel even more alone, and a growing sense of shame and being out of control. 

Sarah is now 54 and in a very, very different place. She had already come to terms with being childless (although these days she calls herself childfree), but after her last relationship ended a couple of years ago, she decided to stop drinking. This has transformed her life in ways she couldn’t have imagined, and she is finally comfortable in her own skin, and has learnt to love and accept herself exactly as she is, without feeling like she needs a relationship or children to validate her life. Last year, Sarah trained with The Sober Club and became an accredited sober coach, and she now runs The Sobriety Society, supporting women who want to change their relationship with alcohol. She’s worked with women in many different situations, but her heart is very much with those who are single and childless.

02:06 Guest Introduction: Sarah Bennett's Journey

02:19 Sarah's Struggles and Transformation

03:17 The Sobriety Society and Coaching

05:07 Sarah's Single Life and Reflections

17:35 Challenges of Drinking and Finding Clarity

32:19 The Benefits of Quitting Alcohol

33:40 Social Pressures and Reactions to Quitting

37:54 Personal Experiences and Challenges

43:59 Coaching and Helping Others

52:37 Health Risks and Statistics

56:45 Final Thoughts and Resources

Check out Sarah's website: https://www.thesobrietysociety.co.uk/

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On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I talk about what it really means to shift out of the background and into the lead role of your own life.

We chat about how easy it is, especially for women, to unconsciously slip into a supporting role, putting everyone else’s needs first, waiting for the “right time,” or playing small out of habit rather than intention.

We explore how being the main character doesn’t mean being loud or dramatic. It simply means taking up space in your own life. And it doesn’t require a big, sweeping change — sometimes it’s just one small moment where you back yourself and remember that you’re allowed to take the lead and want more.

We hope you find something useful in here.

Love,
Polly & Lucy xx

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My guest this week is one of those people that I just fell in love with because she is completely divine and she has the best energy — not to put too fine a point on it, but I bloody loved her! 

Her name is Hannah Frankson, and she is a 37 year old Peloton Instructor living in London, totally rocking her solo life. That said, she is also dating and very much open to a relationship with the right guy. 

From a very young age, Hannah was mad about athletics and it was her dream to go to the Olympics - she worked incredibly hard at athletics for years, also working as both a model and personal training in order to pay the bills. But life had other plans for Hannah and, having broken up with the man she was supposed to marry, she discovered indoor cycling and realised she absolutely loved it. She was subsequently headhunted by Peloton - by the end of this episode you'll understand why they wanted her - and the rest is history. She’s been one of Peloton’s instructors for 6 years. 

In our conversation, Hannah and I talk all about her life as a single woman without kids in London town, we talk about her amazing career, we talk dating, we talk self worth, and much, much more. 

02:15 Guest Introduction

02:48 Hannah's Athletic Journey

07:19 Modelling and Personal Training

16:43 Discovering Peloton

19:35 The Peloton Experience

26:26 Single and Thriving

33:50 Challenging the Narrative: Single Women and Happiness

34:32 The Movement of Single Women

35:21 The Importance of Reframing Single Life

37:03 Addressing Misconceptions on Social Media

38:16 Empowering Single Women Through Fitness

40:34 Navigating Dating and Self-Worth

49:03 Creating a Fulfilling Single Life

51:56 Incorporating Fun and Community into Single Life

54:17 Advice for Women on Fitness and Self-Care

01:02:36 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Follow Hannah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hannahfrankson/?hl=en

Fid Hannah at Peloton: https://www.onepeloton.com/en-GB/instructors/ImFranktheTank

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This week's minisode is a fiery pep talk for your wildest dreams: I unpack the quote “One life. Just one. Why aren’t we running like we are on fire towards our wildest dreams,” and get honest about fear, perfectionism, and waiting for permission. This is a nudge to choose aliveness over hesitation — pick a direction, take the tiniest step, keep it consistent, and stop treating your real life like a rehearsal.

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On today’s Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about the power of intentionally tuning into nature during crazy times.

Most of us would agree that the state of the world right now is…alot. It can feel overwhelming and scary, to say the least, and it’s easy to feel completely out of control.

One of the best ways to put things into perspective - not to mention regulate our overstimulated nervous systems - is to remember that we are a part of something much, much greater than ourselves.

Sometimes a walk in nature is all we need to feel calmer; a cuddle with our cat can bring us back to joy; and noticing the beauty of the flowers or the birds can make us feel more grounded.

So if you’re feeling upset, scared, or horrified by what’s happening in the world, one of the best things you can do is surround yourself with nature - whether that’s a walk along the coast, or just popping into your local city park.

We sincerely hope you’ll find something helpful or interesting in here.

Love,

Polly & Lucy x

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My guest on the podcast today is Gurds Hundal. A former journalist, Gurds is a Trauma Coach & Inner Work Expert, who has more than a decade of experience in trauma healing, boundaries and inner child work. Many of her clients have discovered their purpose, entered healthy relationships, created stronger boundaries, reconnected with their inner child and learnt to love themselves better, and her signature approach comes down to holding the space for her clients to feel, deal with and heal their trauma in a safe and understanding environment...allowing them to heal quicker.  Gurds has extensive experience in coaching, medical journalism and healthcare and has helped many women to transform trauma and infinitely trust themselves, so they can powerfully move forward in their life. 

She is also the host of her own podcast, The Inner Light Project, which is how I met Gurds because I was a guest on her podcast and we had such a great conversation that I decided I had to get her on mine. In this conversation, Gurds tells me how she went from being a “hot mess” and collapsing in her office, to a cancer stare, to discovering she had kidney disease…to turning her life around and finding her purpose and joy.

The conversation delves into the power of healing childhood and ancestral trauma, understanding intuition, and living a life true to oneself. Practical advice is given on how to start the journey of self-discovery and healing, and the episode wraps up with insights into breaking free from victimhood and feeding the positive aspects of life.

02:15 Guest Introduction

03:26 Gurds' Journey: From Collapse to Cancer Scare

07:05 The Turning Point: Embracing Self-Love and Healing

09:19 Discovering Coaching and Transforming Trauma

13:04 The Power of Intuition and Healing

20:37 Finding Purpose and Living Intentionally

31:17 Letting Go of Fear and Embracing Abundance

32:31 The Power of Intuition and Self-Trust

33:54 Challenges Faced by Single Women

35:33 Self-Love and Mirror Work

40:09 Understanding and Healing the Inner Child

47:00 Breaking Free from Victimhood

53:04 Living an Awesome Life and Embracing Your Gifts

Check out Gurds' website: https://gurdshundal.com/

Check out her podcast, The Inner Light Project: https://gurdshundal.com/podcast/

Follow Gurds on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamgurds/

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