Believe me when I say, this is going to be a lesson for me too. No matter what is going on in our lives, we tend to have this need to 'control the situation'. We step into this 'fix it' roll and do whatever we can to completely change the situation. When I am told the title is 'learning how to surrender', I immediately went into feeling defensive emotions. What is there to surrender? Why? Now that I am talking about it, my reaction was very funny. It just shows me that I don't know how to surrender. It doesn't matter what the situation is, when we learn how to surrender, it will all unfold the way it is supposed to. We learn from some situations and some actually have to repeat the situations to learn from them. Let's back it up a bit...we are spiritual beings having a human experience right? As a spiritual being, we know that everything is LIGHT and that there is a flow with our LIGHT. As humans, we tend to over analyze situations and we also think we have to work hard to change what we are going through. In reality, the only thing that needs to change is our perception. What if...we were to simple surrender and allow the situations to come to us and resolve around us, without interfering at all? Our Soul...our True Self... we like to say "Higher Self" is going to bring to us, situations to learn from and it then becomes our job to pay attention. I know people that are repeating the same lessons over and over again. It is frustrating when you do your best to explain that they haven't yet learned what they need to learn. Actually in most cases, I don't say anything at all. It is not my place to say anything. I think that was my biggest AH-AH moment... to actually stay out of the way. When someone comes to me, the first thing that I have the desire to do is help them. That is what most humans do...go into fix-it mode. When this happens to you, ask yourself...'is this assisting them in learning what they are here to learn?'. When there is a lesson involved, it was usually prearranged by our LIGHT before we came into this human experience. I find that very interesting...I can picture our Spiritual Selves, sitting around a table and actually creating a contract. Can you picture it? I would like to experience this...and this... and you do this to me....oh...and I will do this to you. It is all something that is really hard to imagine that we would actually choose to experience some of the things we have. When you think of the energy part of it, it is for growth...I can only guess that is why I have been through what I have been through. Knowing that it is all about choices though, what if...I chose differently? I could have remained with the man that was beating me... or I could have stayed on the path of destruction with the drugs & alcohol I was on. Maybe that is what surrendering really is? I made the decision to transform my life and I surrendered that path to go down a path that I was not familiar with. One of health...health of the mind, body and spirit. To be honest, I never once thought of it as surrendering until now. My Higher Self...my Soul, brought to me what I had to experience...and it became a step by step process. My awareness was to focus on food and getting the best nutrition possible...which lead me to Law of Attraction and the fact that your thoughts are creating your life. Then...to find out about energy and angels and healing... it all fits together like a book. Turning the pages of life as it all unfolds I am sure there was a quicker way to go through what I did and that would be to fully surrender. For me...I was reading every self help book I could find. Something out there was going to change my life. Something out there was going to help me to BE a different person. What have I learned from all of that? That when you can surrender and allow things to unfold, it is so much easier. There is nothing outside of you that can change your life. There is no book, no course, not even better food ~ the only thing that you can do to assist your growth is to surrender and see what comes next. Going within is a powerful way to do that. Connecting & expanding your heart and focusing on the LIGHT of who you really are is the only thing that will change your life. For years, I have made my focus on LIGHT. The LIGHT of your food (all food has a frequency ~ an aura around it), the LIGHT of your thoughts...the LIGHT you are wearing to the world... sometimes I call that broadcasting. What do you think would happen if we were to surrender to the LIGHT of who we are? If instead of working so hard at changing our lives, that we surrendered and simply allowed our life to unfold? Our LIGHT would be what was attracting people and situations to our experience...and when our LIGHT...our frequency is attracting like a magnet, we would only be attracting our LIGHT back to us. I don't know about you...I am LOVING the idea of this. Can you imagine how freeing it would feel like? We would have to BE AWARE and talk to who was brought to us...listen to a conversation going on for the messages or the signs. Last week I mentioned the affirmation from Louise Hay...did you start saying that? I AM AWARE. Three simple words and yet, very powerful. I have been repeating it throughout my day. As for surrendering, that can sometimes be a difficult thing to do ~ take getting more clients as an example. In the past, I have taken courses on how to get more clients... more people signing up for what you are offering and all the work you do to do that. Just this past weekend, I went to a health show. I stood there all day...collecting emails & talking to people. All day I questioned about this 'surrendering' that I was supposed to be talking about. Here I was in a situation where I paid for the table and I was doing the work and yet, it wasn't surrendering...not even a little bit. I made the decision right there and then, that I would surrender. What will be ...will be. I will continue to do my own Expo's ~ I have one coming up at the end of April, however, I will no longer 'chase' down people to sign up and all that comes with it. When you are wearing the frequency of LIGHT, you will attract to you the clients that are right for you. THAT is how energy works. It goes even deeper than that when you KNOW that your Soul will bring to you what you are supposed to experience. There is no need to chase and to do alot of work...not unless you are guided to do that. BEING the observer, you will be able to witness your life unfold before you. The people will come to you that are supposed to - some may be to answer questions you have had and others will come to you for a message they need to hear. When you begin your day, KNOW that as the observer, you will be paying attention to the signs that come to you. It could be a person speaking near you, a friend talking to you, a sign you noticed...even a set of numbers or an animal that comes to you... they are all signs. Observing can be so much fun... when you are observing, you are free of resistance and when you are free of resistance, you are surrendering. One question I asked the Beings of Light regarding this, was what if someone around us was over reacting about something? The answer I got back was "to always remember that it's not about you" ~ we are to remember that everyone has there own path. We all have lessons and we all have experiences that we have yet to learn. That is when we go into allowing them to experience what they need to. Our only 'job' if you call it that, is to surrender and allow our own life to unfold. We have control over our thoughts & emotions and we also have control over letting go our resistance. We either hold onto resistance and BE uncomfortable or we LET GO and surrender to allow all resistance to dissolve. You see, that resistance cannot be part of you when you are shinning your LIGHT. The LIGHT you bring into your body and your space clears all of that away. Knowing that...will you bring in more LIGHT into your life? You are the master and you have total control ~ as soon as you step into that mastery the better your life will be. Stepping into the mastery is surrendering. With total surrender, you are giving your life to your Soul...your Higher Self! That even sounds powerful just saying that! Aren't you just a little bit curious about what will come to you? When you surrender to allow your Soul to bring to you what you are meant to experience, there is a trust there that seems like the most powerful thing you have ever done. I know I haven't ever done anything like it. I am totally willing to allow it now...just hand over my entire life. Then, it is my job to expect everything for my highest good to unfold. Sounds exciting doesn't it? I am being guided to take you on a journey ~ a meditation to step into this mastery and surrender to your Soul. Take a couple of deep breaths. As you normally do, inhale the purest WHITE LIGHT into your body. Exhale this beautiful LIGHT into your space...completely surround yourself with this WHITE LIGHT. Visualize a golden LIGHT above your body and witness it sprinkling golden LIGHT over you ~ totally cleansing your body and space with this high frequency LIGHT. Keep breathing deeply and allowing the LIGHT to flow through you and around you. Notice that there is a mountain with a pathway going up in the distance. Allow yourself to go towards the mountain and start following the pathway up the mountain. When you arrive at the top of the mountain, notice that the Beings of Light have gathered at the top. You will see Masters, Archangels, Guides... all the Beings of Light together. They seem to be celebrating something...you can't seem to make out what they are saying just yet. Something really bright gets your attention. You start heading towards this bright LIGHT...through the crowds that have gathered. When you arrive at this bright LIGHT, you notice that it is YOU... your Soul...who you have called your HIGHER SELF. Your Soul now explains to you that this celebration is about YOU and the fact that you are ready to surrender. Your Soul explains that you have nothing to fear that everything will unfold for your highest good. As part of this ceremony there is a process that is being asked of you... something that will allow the complete surrender to take place. You are asked to simply allow yourself to fall...backwards off the mountain. You can feel that there is no fear in this request. You are surrounded by the highest of frequency with all these Beings of LIGHT. Now you understand what they are celebrating and you are ready to take the leap...to surrender. Standing at the edge of the mountain, you stare into the eyes of your Soul and you see nothing but TRUST. You say the words "I completely surrender and allow you to show me my mastery...for my HIGHEST GOOD." Now, you allow yourself to fall off the mountain. You are now gently falling...with no fear and you can still FEEL all the Beings of LIGHT around you. They are falling with you... completely following you as you LET GO. You are NOT ALONE and you have never been ALONE. Keep breathing deeply and I will speak in our Soul Language. Soul Language Message Take a deep breath and visualize yourself BEING the master of your life. KNOW that this surrendering ceremony has taken place and you are now stepping into the mastery of allowing your life to unfold. This has been a very powerful meditation. Don't be surprised if you have some powerful dreams in the coming days. This is the week of a very powerful full moon - the Pink FULL MOON is about bringing in more LOVE LIGHT. This frequency will only enhance this meditation. Continue to focus on surrendering on a daily basis. We are all programmed to thing that we have to work hard to accomplish anything when in reality, our Soul will bring to us what we need. It has always been about surrendering. I am sending you LOVE & LIGHT and the highest possible frequency to assist you in your surrendering ceremony. Many Blessings to you all! 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