Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman

Touchy Subject & Three Dates In


Listen Later

 Uncommon Goods makes holiday shopping stress-free and joyful with thousands of one-of-a-kind gifts you can't find anywhere else.  So shop early, have fun, and cross some names off your list today. To get 15% off your next gift, visit uncommongoods.com/datesmates (Cast Sensitive) _______________________________________

Ever meet someone you really like, but there's this invisible wall around certain topics they won't talk about?

A listener named Kristen shares:

"I met this guy on Hinge and we've gone out on three dates. We've talked about some personal things about family and stuff, and we have a lot of things in common. One of the things is we were both raised by single parents and one of the parents he's not as close to, and he said it's like a touchy subject for him. So I want to respect that. But I also wanna know a little bit more just to understand how they grew up and how they are as a person and all that jazz, you know?"

In this episode, we explore the delicate balance between curiosity and respect, and how to navigate those closed doors in early dating. You'll hear why someone saying "it's a touchy subject" is actually valuable information and how to build trust without pushing too hard.

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • What "touchy subject" really means The paradox of wanting to protect yourself while giving someone space
  • Is 3 dates, once a week the right pace for slow love?
  • How trust gets built in tiny moments
  • The difference between healthy boundaries and emotional unavailability
  • How to model vulnerability in a new relationship
  • Want to track what's working (and what's not) in your dating life? Download the free Date Tracker at damonahoffman.com/datetracker

    Got a relationship or dating question? DM @DamonaHoffman on Instagram, TikTok, or Facebook, or leave a voicemail or text at 424-246-6255

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    ...more
    View all episodesView all episodes
    Download on the App Store

    Dates & Mates with Damona HoffmanBy Damona Hoffman - Dates and Mates Media

    • 4.7
    • 4.7
    • 4.7
    • 4.7
    • 4.7

    4.7

    294 ratings


    More shows like Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman

    View all
    Love Life With Matthew Hussey by Matthew Hussey

    Love Life With Matthew Hussey

    2,678 Listeners

    The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc Katz by Evan Marc Katz

    The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc Katz

    561 Listeners

    Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships by Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

    Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

    904 Listeners

    Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice by Dr. Morgan Anderson

    Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

    1,130 Listeners

    Seeing Other People by Ilana Dunn

    Seeing Other People

    570 Listeners

    Heal Your Heartbreak by Break Up Bestie

    Heal Your Heartbreak

    630 Listeners

    Ask a Matchmaker by Maria Avgitidis

    Ask a Matchmaker

    381 Listeners

    Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast by Ali Jackson

    Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

    644 Listeners

    Master Your Magnetism with Helena Hart by Helena Hart, Bleav

    Master Your Magnetism with Helena Hart

    134 Listeners

    Reimagining Love with Dr. Alexandra Solomon by Dr. Alexandra Solomon

    Reimagining Love with Dr. Alexandra Solomon

    299 Listeners

    On Attachment by Stephanie Rigg

    On Attachment

    1,045 Listeners

    Jillian on Love by Jillian Turecki | QCODE

    Jillian on Love

    1,390 Listeners

    The Sabrina Zohar Show by The Sabrina Zohar Show

    The Sabrina Zohar Show

    4,974 Listeners

    Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

    Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

    629 Listeners

    Dating Intentionally by Talia Koren

    Dating Intentionally

    487 Listeners