Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

TPP 003a: A Conversation with 11-year-old Asher about Distraction


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This episode is the first of a new regular feature of the TiLT Parenting Podcast—a special kid’s POV edition. Every few weeks, I’ll be sharing a conversation with my 11-year-old child Asher, in which we discuss an issue that’s particularly relevant to families with differently-wired kids. Asher hopes that by sharing his perspective on the kinds of things we as parents can struggle to navigate, moms and dads everywhere will better understand what’s happening with their child, as well as gain new inspiration for moving through tough situations in a way that best serves everyone involved.

In this episode, we tackle what ADHD feels like, and specifically the issue of DISTRACTION, something that has been a significant challenge for us as a family, and more recently, has become frustrating for Asher himself. In our short conversation, Asher shares what the experience of getting distracted actually feels like for him, as well as how frustrating getting distracted can actually be. We also discuss some of the strategies we’re using to help Asher stay on-task as we work to develop his focusing muscles.

Debbie Reber is the founder of TiLT and the host of the Tilt Parenting Podcast. 11-year-old Asher is Debbie’s son and is regularly featured on the podcast. 

Things you’ll learn from this episode

  • Asher’s thoughts on what ADHD actually feels like, including what it’s like to always be distracted
  • Why it’s frustrating for the kids themselves to get distracted
  • What might motivate a child to work on staying focused
  • The strategy we’re using to help Asher stay focused and on-task while using his screen time
  •  Resources mentioned for Asher’s perspective on what ADHD feels like

    • Download a PDF of Asher’s Original Personal Goal Planner
    • Download a PDF of Asher’s Screen Time Planning Worksheet
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