July 21, 2023

Underrated Fat Loss Tools, Having Difficult Conversations and Getting Over The Fear of Offending People with Paul Dermody! (From The 2021 Archive)

1 hour 30 minutes

This episode first aired on 29th March 2021

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Today's episode is a fly-on-the-wall conversation with one of my closest friends, Paul Dermody. We focused initially on nutrition and diet and then went in a different direction about halfway through the episode. If you enjoyed any of our previous conversations with a similar show structure, then this is not to be missed.

Key Points

· Many of us have a tendency to overestimate our nutritional knowledge. Paul encourages us to reflect on why we think about food the way we do, especially if we're stuck in our health and fitness goals. Cultivate self-awareness around where you're taking in your information and humble yourself to embrace the possibility that there may be gaps in your knowledge—and that some of that "knowledge" may be outright wrong.

· Suffering comes from our belief that we can predict the behavior or thoughts of other people. It's unproductive to rely only on the little voice inside your head, because more often than not, we tend to be our own worst critic and overrationalize situations when relying on our own assumptions. Don't try to predict the intentions of other people. It's almost always a fruitless endeavor.

· It's easy to get wrapped up in the idea that this one achievement or one event or one purchase will make you happy. What usually happens is, once those goals are reached, whatever high you experience always turns out to be temporary, and you're off chasing the next goal. True happiness is found in the moment and counting all the small blessings that we tend to take for granted, and not in simply pining for targets that we may or may never hit.

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