Welcome to part 2 of Soulmate vs Soul Compliment, where you'll learn how to attract this person! If you haven't listened to Part 1, that is essential to understand this. I promise you... this won't work without that episode first.

Listen to Part 1 here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/soulmate-vs-soul-compliment-the-difference-and-how/id1647393740?i=1000721646839

In today's episode, you'll learn...

• How to earn the right to be a match for your soul compliment (yes, EARN!)
• One of the craziest cheating reflections I've ever experienced. You can't make this up
• Process to speed up the timeline to find your soul compliment, so instead of meeting them at 40 you meet them at 30
• Why attraction tends to fade in relationships, and the Source truth of how to prevent that
• The "wrong" reasons people want relationships + how to spot them in yourself
• What it looks like to feel whole on your own without anyone else... and WTF "whole" actually means
• Why people pursue careers that aren't their actual soul pull, and how that ties into relationships
• Why your Higher Self would prevent your soul compliment from coming into your life...
• The #1 word holding you back from fixing holes in your Creator Field + pushing away this relationship
• And so much more

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This episode was originally published in 2024, but it’s too good NOT to circle back to. As we’re on a self-image theme, body dysmorphia is something that I myself have experienced massively, and know so many others do too 🤍 Let’s dive in.

You look in the mirror and wonder why you don’t see what everyone else sees.

You could gain weight, lose weight, or even change your features - and it would still feel off. 

Because the problem was never your body. Body dysmorphia actually has nothing to do with how your body and face actually look.

Who you are and how you were created was not an accident.

Your Higher Self chose every single detail of your body on purpose, for a purpose. Your height, skin tone, freckles, size of your nose - all designed and chosen with the intent to help you reach your highest potential.

This episode dives into the Source truth on body dysmorphia: how reflections in other areas of life change how you see your body, why your eyes manipulate light to alter your reflection, and why external fixes like Botox and fillers keep you stuck in the same cycle.

You’ll finally learn how to heal from the root - so when you look in the mirror, you see yourself clearly and any choices that follow are made from an aligned, balanced place.

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The Glow Foundation - LIVE 90-min Workshop - September 2025

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You’re tired of hitting the same walls and repeating the same obstacles - you just want the results to match the effort you put in.

But the reason you don’t have them isn’t because you’re lazy or unmotivated.

It’s because your self-image is running the show. And right now, it’s working against you.

The people you see with the career, the money, the fulfilling relationship, the influence?

They’re not “special” - they just don’t have the same blocks you do.

Even if you’re thriving in one area of life, any gap in your self-image leaves a gap in your Creator Field. And when you have gaps, you become a magnet for more obstacles.

The fix isn’t working harder. It’s shifting how you see yourself so the rest of the world matches your energy and treats you accordingly.

There’s a proven energetic formula to create this shift, and once you do…the success, recognition, and results are inevitable.

This episode dives into the telling signs of a self-image gap, how it plays a role in what you create, and the steps to start shifting it today.

Note: This episode was pre-recorded, not filmed live for the Unf*ck Yourself Membership

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The Glow Foundation - LIVE 90-min Workshop - September 2025

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Your $28 Foundational Program

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The Alexandra Ninfo Affiliate Program

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The #1 question I get asked when it comes to self-image in romantic relationships is… 

“How do I find or make sure I’m in my dream relationship?” and/or “What’s the difference between a soul compliment and a soul mate?” 

The Source truth is that we are not meant to do life alone forever, we're not meant to live life without a life partner. And we also all have a need to be understood by our partner. 

When we improve what we feel like we're deserving of in relationships, then we are able to create that. It's KNOWING you're deserving of that high 90s or even 100% match for you!

There’s 4 specific categories of being compatible with someone including:  

• Mentally
• Physically
• Spiritually
• Emotionally

While a soul compliment will help you grow and expedite what you desire to create in life x100... it is also 100x more reflective at the same time. So many people have been with a soul compliment but thought it was a terrible relationship because those relationships are the most reflective thing you’ll ever experience. 

Intuitively, 97% of the world who gets divorced either (1) gets divorced too early OR (2) shouldn't have because they didn't understand reflections and they could have made that relationship blossom so much more. 

In this episode, you’ll learn the ins and outs of increasing your self-image so you’re a match for a partner that’s a 100% match for you, and understand what a soul compliment is like. 

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The Glow Foundation - LIVE 90-min Workshop - September 2025

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The version of self-love you were taught isn’t the version that’s gonna get you what you want.

Bubble baths won’t teach you how to say no to your mom when she asks for a favor you don’t have the energy for.

A massage won’t stop your bestie from taking more from you than they give back.

A wine night watching your fav TV show won’t keep you from being a pushover at work when your boss overloads your plate.

But it’s not your fault. You’ve been conditioned by 1 of 2 extremes.

Christianity tells you that you’re only a “good person” if you self-sacrifice and dedicate your life to serving others.

The spiritual healing space tells you you can’t love yourself unless you cut everyone off the second they cross the line.

They’re not completely wrong…but they’re missing a massive piece. One no one ever talks about.

There’s a proven energetic and physical formula for self-love that actually works and allows you to prioritize yourself and still have the capacity to show up for others at 100%.

This week’s episode is only for those ready to challenge everything they thought they knew about self-love and walk away with the tools to get what you want, every time. 

No guilt. No regret. No second-guessing. No matter the circumstances.

RESOURCES MENTIONED

The Glow Foundation - LIVE 90-min Workshop - September 2025

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You’ve been told your whole life that if you fix that one thing, things will finally shift for you.

Be less loud and more people will like you.

Be more serious and you’ll be respected.

Tweak your nose and your attitude, and suddenly you’ll be worthy of love and success.

But here’s the truth.

That belief isn’t empowering you. You’re being manipulated.

This episode unpacks why you actually don’t need to change a single thing to feel and be magnetic, you just need to start with remembering who the f*ck you are.

Because when your version of unconditional love matches Source’s definition, that’s when everything finally shifts.

You get chosen. Opportunities are lined up for you. You stop performing and overgiving. You stop losing yourself just to win over others.

Unlocking your full power and potential doesn’t come from shapeshifting into someone else. It comes from letting go of what you thought you had to be or do to get what you want.

You get to rewrite the script, where you are the standard and love for yourself doesn’t come with conditions.

RESOURCES MENTIONED

The Glow Foundation - LIVE 90-min Workshop - September 2025

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From the Source perspective, self-image is the KEY to anything you desire to create in your life. And when we have self-image blocks that remain unhealed, it becomes the root to every single obstacle in our life. 

Didn't get the raise you wanted?
Can't get pregnant?
Partner won't commit to you?
 
Every single perceived obstacle comes down to a self-image problem somewhere. 

How? 

Our brains create neural pathways that have conditioned us - with beliefs and patterns - to be our own worst critic. Since childhood, it's created neural loops that... we aren't good enough. And those create issues that appear in our life, in every area of life - finances, relationships, your health, anywhere. 

But so often, we try to fix an internal problem with an external solution. That doesn't get to the actual root cause which means you don't actually heal. If you break your leg and try to cover up the bruises with concealer... it doesn't actually fix the problem.

This episode gives you the answers on how to start to reprogram and rewire your brain for actual healing, by suffocating these old neural pathways to create new ones. 

RESOURCES MENTIONED

The Glow Foundation - LIVE 90-min Workshop - September 2025

Your $28 Foundational Program

The Alexandra Ninfo Affiliate Program

Unf*ck Yourself Membership

PODCAST EPISODES

You’re Hot But You Don’t See It

Why Self-Love The Spiritual World Teaches You Is Keeping You From Your Potential

Foundation of the Source Truth of Self-Image + Why It’s Causing All Your Obstacles

SELF-LOVE: the key to getting what you want + program your creator field for success (from SOURCE)

This specific Source-channeled self-image healing is what’s MISSING from your ability to create your manifestations

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Connect with Rebecca Ives

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_content_queen/

Rebecca’s Course: Girls Just Wanna Have Funnels

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Rebecca Ives knows firsthand how truly powerful self-image work is - it’s shifted her entire life.

She’s no stranger to my world - she’s invested in multiple programs, attended the live in-person Glow Retreat in February, and has worked with me 1:1. The literal definition of dedicated to transformation.

In this episode, Rebecca gets vulnerable and shares her personal journey with fertility struggles, feeling dependent on weed, and not being able to sustain her business that took off faster than she expected.

She opens up about how the self-image tools and teachings she’s learned helped her finally create the results she was looking for.

Inside, we discuss:

✔️ The overwhelm Rebecca felt when her business skyrocketed but felt too heavy to carry with unhealed self-image wounds

✔️ The role self-image played in her fertility journey

✔️ The exact moment she realized she needed to shift her life

✔️ How connecting with her innate value and healing her self-image helped her unlock her next aligned steps

✔️ Identity shifts - transitioning from who you think you should be to who you truly are

✔️ The self-image tools and courses Rebecca invested in to transform

✔️ How you become a match for others’ projections through your self-image

✔️ Reprogramming limiting beliefs around finances

✔️ How shifting her self-image finally helped her quit weed

AND SO MUCH MORE

This week’s episode is a POWERFUL reminder of what’s possible when you choose healing over quick-fixes.

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Rebecca’s Course: Girls Just Wanna Have Funnels

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You’re not crazy or delusional if you feel like it’s hard to feel confident. You get compliments from so many people, but you still struggle to believe them…

That’s because you’ve been wired to not see your hotness, magnetism + power.

This week’s episode dives into why your brain literally can’t see Source truth and how to finally reprogram it. Because self-image isn’t faking confidence - it’s about breaking away from the conditioning in your subconscious. 

Inside this episode, we talk about:

✔️ Why your brain doesn’t clock your true beauty + how to reprogram it

✔️The truth about body dysmorphia no one talks about

✔️ What self-image actually is (it’s not a vibe or a mindset)

✔️ How neural pathways form + why your thought patterns aren’t your fault

✔️ Why affirmations don’t work + what actually does

✔️ How the reticular activating system filters your reality + blocks your potential

✔️ The blind spots that keep you from feeling hot, powerful, and magnetic

✔️ Why being your authentic self is literally the sexiest thing you can do

AND SO MUCH MORE

If you’re ready to finally see yourself the way Source does - this episode is a CAN’T MISS.

RESOURCES MENTIONED

Podcast Episode: Source Truth on Why You Have Body Dysmorphia + Changing the Body

Apple Podcasts

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/source-truth-on-why-you-have-body-dysmorphia-changing/id1647393740?i=1000664711483

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https://open.spotify.com/episode/7EvYSVnGQOkLBUHmsfE69Q?si=6e76df74a4544a57

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This week on the Unf*ck Yourself podcast, we’re diving into the Source truth around truly seeing, feeling + owning your unique specialness.

So many don’t realize how powerful they truly are - because they were programmed not to.

You were never taught how to unlock + embody your full power…until now.

This episode unpacks the subconscious programming that disconnects you from the perfection of being exactly who you are. 

This isn’t a surface level confidence boost. This is complete rewiring of your self-image on a Source-level.

Inside this episode, we discuss:

✔️ The reason it feels so hard to accept your specialness

✔️ How your obstacles are designed to unlock your highest potential in every area of life

✔️ Breaking down + rewiring the limiting beliefs you didn’t even realize you had

✔️ Reprogramming on a Source/Soul level

✔️ How everything you experience is your Soul plan + why that works in your favor
✔️ The Law of Amplification + how it can either work for you, or against you

AND SO MUCH MORE!

RESOURCES MENTIONED

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