Unhindered

Are you aware that your financial difficulties actually have nothing to do with money itself?

When it comes to their financial situation, many people suffer greatly in this area simply due to the way their limiting beliefs and fears about themselves show up here.

Find out how to stop all unnecessary suffering in your finances on today’s episode of 10 minute Tuesday.

Not all suffering is equal. Some suffering is unavoidable and is fact an important part of the process of character development. Then there is suffering that comes from making avoidable mistakes and not growing our capacity to handle the challenges of life.

When it comes to relationships, there are plenty of opportunities for both kinds of suffering.

On today’s episode of 10 minute Tuesday I’ll unpack 7 of the key areas suffering unfolds when you show up to your relationships with unresolved insecurity.

Thankfully this kind of suffering is entirely avoidable. I’ll show you how to do just that too.

Normally I'm always banging on about the need to solve the insecurity problem in your life, but today I'm highlighting the 3 biggest reasons NOT to stop being insecure.

The truth about insecurity is that it in certain seasons it provides incredible value and plays a very important role in your life.

Are you really sure you are ready to stop being insecure?

On today’s episode of 10 minute Tuesday I’ll show you all the upsides to being insecure in case you want to stop being insecure without milking all its benefits.

The human condition is this:

We want to be good, but are afraid that we are bad.

Therefore, we avoid living and dying, loving and trying.

We run away from what is real incase that reality reveals our true nature and that nature proves to be bad.

This is the central drama of our existence, and the underlying cause of all dysfunction and suffering.

Thankfully there is an antidote to this great problem. On today’s Episode of 10 minute Tuesday, I’ll show you the only way out of this dilemma.

Are you hiding in plain sight?

The safest place to hide is always where no one thinks to look. Hiding in plain sight is to appear to not even be hiding at all. You deceive others and more importantly you even deceive yourself

That is exactly why it works so well!

I know that no one wants to be called out especially while they are hiding, but I can get away with it because I have no agenda other than to help you see what is real. I also know that if you are only hiding it is only because you are afraid.

On today’s episode I’ll show you the 3 most commonly used hide outs, and also why it is safe to come out of hiding for good and step into the light.

The final 10 minute Tuesday episode for the year!

So much about the problem of insecurity is created and sustained simply through imprecise language. Yet, as Jordan Peterson so cleverly says, our world becomes radically different when we are precise in our speech instead.

Listen in to see how this one simple idea is the only way in to the process of truly overcoming your insecurity.

If you are not committed to living out the vision you have for your life, then you will inevitably be serving someone else’s vision for your life. These are the only 2 options.

Here are 20 things that have helped me not only get clear about what I want for my life, but to become the kind of person who could see these dreams become reality.

If you feel stuck somewhere on your vision quest, I’m sure you’ll find this useful.

My guest on the podcast today is Isiah McKimmie

Isiah is a Couples Therapist, Sex Therapist, Sexologist and Coach who has been helping women and couples discover intimacy and connection for over a decade.

One of Australia’s most qualified Sex and Relationship Experts, she holds a Masters degree in Relational Psychotherapy, a Master degree in Science in Medicine (Sexual Counselling/Psychosexual Therapy), a Post-Graduate Diploma of Sexology and a Certificate from the prestigious Institute for the Advanced Studies of Human Sexuality.

In the conversation on the subject of insecurity and sexuality we cover a wide range of topics including: - Dealing with the impact of sexual abuse

- The impact a repressed sexuality has on other areas of life

- How your beliefs and fears about yourself show up in the bedroom

- Growing together as a couple - Sex as life force energy

- The problem of pornography as sex education

- Talking to your kids about sex

People suffer greatly for not knowing how to talk about sex, so I'm sure you'll find Isiah's approach to the subject refreshingly honest and useful.

Did you realise that 80% of your success in any area of life comes from only 20% of your efforts?

Based on the brilliant 80/20 principle book by Richard Koch, find out the 20% effort that is guaranteed to yield 80% of your results when it comes to overcoming insecurity.

The 4 A’s of transformation

On the Podcast today. Brian and Carrie unpack their exquisite 4A’s of transformation model.

I first came across their work 4 years ago and this one idea instantly changed my life. It has become the central idea from which I do all coaching work and is a beautiful summary of how anyone has ever and will ever transform their life. This model is referenced on page 121 of my latest book. Unhindered - The seven essential practices for overcoming insecurity.

Check out our short and sharp conversation about the 4 A’s off transformation to make sure you are accurately applying this model to your life.