Unhindered

It's taken me a couple of weeks to process and integrate all the learnings from the trip of a lifetime to the US and Guatemala with my son, but I've put together some reflections that I think you'll enjoy.

Here are some of the highlights from this episode:

Why I'm likely to win parent of the year unless chimpanzees assess the awards criteria like they seemingly do for neck pillows.

The five keys I use to reframe my experience to get more of what I want, no matter what is going on around me.

How to know who you really are and what to do when you are with people who have no idea about what is really inside you.

And the ironic double standards of when you’re allowed to use cuss words in the USA.

Get a behind the scenes view of the Insecurity Project and all that has gone into my journey to this point as Sean Steele follows his curiosity and turns the mic around to interview me.

Here are some of the great topics we covered:

When you set such high standards for your own life, how does that play out in your parenting

What is the biggest misunderstanding about insecurity

The impact of my religious upbringing on my work today

How to expand on the map of the world we get given in the family we are born into

Whether religious people are harder to coach

Where insecurity still shows up for me

Where to from here and what’s next for the Insecurity Project.

On today’s episode of the Unhindered podcast:

You may have heard me talk about my power and grace tattoos before, but today I’ll explain what happens when I get them around the wrong way. Even though these words still are my most important course correctors, this week I got myself in strife by looking for grace when I really needed to use my power.

I’ll also talk about the dangerous things that happen when we are scared, and why Franklin D Rooselvelt’s words still ring true almost a century after his stirring speech.

And finally, there’s Lebron James’ moon boot, what happened before the Big Bang, and why listening to Russel brand on 2x speed is bad for your health.

Teaching someone how to love you.

On today’s episode:

-       The $50million dollar solution to the problem of Australian bushfires that’s already working.

-       Why Malcom Gladwell’s book Blink isn’t that great, and why Jordan Peterson’s book beyond order is.

-       How to make an affogato properly.

-       The single most important question to ask your spouse and for them to ask you right now.

-       And the 5 core qualities you’ll  require to effectively retrain others how to treat you.

On today’s episode:

-       Showing up in other people’s dreams as the messiah.

-       The problem with running your business as a one-woman band.

-       My plan B if this life coaching thing doesn’t work out.

-       How I resolved my back pain in 30 minutes.

-       And, how to align the 4 key areas of life so that you win your most important games.

Jessica Wilson is a repeat tech entrepreneur and cofounder of Women Making Waves which uses NFT’s to fund law reform in Australia and the USA especially in areas that are adversely affecting women.

She is a remarkable human doing extraordinary work in the world with an incredible story to tell.

Her retail tech company Stashd’ operates in 150 countries and saw her as a grand finalist on China’s version of shark tank, leading to Forbes magazine naming her as one of 1,000 people under 30 most likely to change the world in the next 50 years!

In my conversation with Jess we cover:

Her personal journey of overcoming injustice and inequality and how she fought her back from being sexually abused. (You can watch her remarkable video on the subject here)

Changing the meaning on the experiences that have the capacity to destroy you.

Toxic masculinity, the male patriarchy and her vision for an inclusive society.

The importance of showing grace and kindness to yourself in the healing process.

You can find out more about Jess and the work she is doing in the world at https://womenmakingwaves.io

On todays episode of the Unhindered podcast find out:

What Jesus was doing at the Super Bowl,

Why it’s ok for football players to behave poorly at home, except in my home town of Goulburn,

How to go viral on Instagram and stop wanting to be rich and famous,

Why you should NOT stop caring about what others think.

And why zooming out every once in a while may be the best thing you’ve ever done for yourself.

Flow is defined as the most meaningful and effective experiences we get to have as humans. It is the moments of bliss, inspiration, clarity and power that transport us into the supernatural realm and allow us to achieve truly extraordinary results.

Every has this magic inside them. The issue is, can you access it when you need it most?

On today's episode I'll share the most important discoveries I've made in the last 10 years about how to find flow on a daily basis.

Oh, and I'll also share a recent review of one of my books that described it 'The worst self development book I've read in a long time.’

The Insecurity Project podcast has a new name! From henceforth it shall now be known as the Unhindered podcast.

There really is only one goal - To be completely unhindered so that you can show up to life at your best where it matters most.

There really is only one problem - Hidden or unresolved insecurity is the only thing that ever stops people living the life they are truly capable of.

And, there really is only one solution - The 7 essential practices for overcoming insecurity is the proven roadmap for how anyone has ever fully solved this universal problem.

May you become unhindered in 2023!

On the first episode for this year I’m inviting you to participate in a thought experiment that has the power to change your whole perspective about what it means to be you. Who are you? What are you? And are you actually alone and separated from the things you desire, or is that merely an illusion.

Listen in to find out for sure.

If you've listened to much of the podcast before, no doubt you'll have heard me say that in order to fully overcome all insecurity, you'll have to go back to the moments in your childhood where you created these fears about yourself in the first place.

But what happens if you just CAN'T remember? Especially when the research suggests these formative beliefs are created before you are 7!

If you (like the majority of people) have no clear memory of these defining moments, I'll show you what to do instead using the wonder of imagination and generalisation.

I'll also give a short summary of my favourite book of the year - The magicians way by William Whitecloud, and tell you what the 7 secrets of magic have to do with living unhindered.

This is the final episode for 2022. A big thank you to all who’ve tuned in each week this year. I’ll be back with more of your favourite content and conversations early in the new year.