The difference between where you want to be, and the life you dream of living, are consistent steps in the right direction. Over and over we see that developing consistent disciplines in marriage is a huge piece of the puzzle in building a better one, and towards healing. It is determining to do what it takes as long as it takes, and not depending on motivation, but on purpose.

Our biggest encouragement is for you to develop consistency in getting into the Word of God. This is an area that will impact every other area you desire to improve in...your marriage, as a parent, as a person, and ultimately, as a child of God.  

To listen to more about what we have to say on Consistency, tune into Episode 37, "The Key?...Consistency!

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Sexuality is one of the first places you can see the evidence of brokenness in a relationship. It holds great power to bring both connection and disconnection with your spouse.  God's design for sex within marriage is meant to be a beautiful place of intimacy that draws a husband and a wife closer to one another, where they can experience pleasure with one another, but this is an area of brokenness for so many. 

On this episode we talk about reclaiming ground the enemy has stolen, how to reconnect with each other after betrayed trust, and pursuing one another in every area, without expectation.  Don't miss this episode on this important topic and invite God into EVERY area of your life...including your sex life! 

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We often give people advice that they should follow peace but what does that look like? If you are feeling comfortable, does that mean peace? What does it look like to have a Godly peace that exceeds your emotions, understanding, and cirumstances? We dig into this topic on this episode and encourage you to never  get ahead or behind where God wants you to be. 

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This entire episode today is based off of a friend who left us a review. We wanted to address what it is like to be a part of the collateral damage when there is betrayed trust in a marriage. 

Family and friends can either hinder or help in these situations. On this episode we give some practical advice on how you can help. Don't be a friend or family that helps numb the pain, but instead enable them to walk through it, and towards healing by being there, being careful with your advice, and above all praying! 

Never underestimate the power of what God can do in the most broken places and how prayers are answered everyday! 

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Mindset and Moving Forward are key to any aspect of your life if you don't want to become stagnant. On this episode we talk about specific things that we learned that allowed us, through God, to get out of the same cycle over and over. 

Isaiah 43:18-19

“Forget the former things;

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We developed guardrails and accountability the hard way. We didn't think about them, or develop them until our marriage was in crisis. At first, they started as a series of rules instead of a systemic way to approach life, but we learned how valuable they were in helping us head the right direction, and protecting what we value. 

On this episode we cover some of our own personal guardrails for our marriage, tips on how to have that conversation with your spouse, and key aspects to look for when seeking out accountability partners. 

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Our story involves a lot of forgiveness....on both sides. On this episode we touch briefly on Lisa and what forgiveness looked like for her, but the focus is on Brad and his journey of walking through forgiving himself. Listen as he discusses the process that God brought him through and how that transformed the way he thought, and even looked at himself. He reveals how God eventually had him look at his scars in an entirely different way. We pray this honesty brings hope to wherever you might find yourself.

We love that there is NOTHING that anyone can do that is bigger than what Jesus did on the cross. When we truly repent, this forgiveness is extended to each one of us sinners and our slate is wiped clean. Whether you need to forgive yourself or someone else, we challenge you to make that choice. Walk it out daily, and don't let bitterness, discouragement, unforgiveness, or anger hold you back from what God has for you.

Remember this verse, “My dear children, I am writing this to you so that you will not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ, the one who is truly righteous. He himself is the sacrifice that atones for our sins—and not only our sins but the sins of all the world.”

1 John 2:1-2 NLT

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When you are looking to rebuild trust that has been broken, there is an innate longing for the truth. In fact, you will go to great lengths in order to unearth any deception. And truth is a beautiful thing...but do you need to know every detail to move forward? Does every thing you know truly lead you towards healing?

On this episode we go through some practical tips and questions to help you navigate this process. Transparency is key! The willingness to reveal any and all things is necessary in order to walk out reconciliation. However, we also want to encourage you to remember that everything you know you will have to heal from. Everything you see, read, and hear has the ability to taint even more of your past. Because of that, you definitely need to ask yourself some tough questions before finding out EVERY detail about everything. 

Ultimately, we ask you to go to Jesus. Pray for your spouse like you never have before, and specifically for their mind and yours!

"No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it." 1st Corinthians 10:13

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In the past few weeks, we have walked you through our individual stories, and what God had to do in both of our lives to bring us to the point of reconciliation. Now we want to take you through the actual reconciliation process and the steps that we learned along the way. 

On this episode. we talk about the detox process. We found this to be one of the most painful stages to walk through, as we were in a consistent cycle of distrust and failure. 

We are praying that some of the mistakes we made in this process, will encourage you to BE RUTHLESS in eliminating things in your life that are holding you back from what God has for you, and your marriage. Don't let the flesh win and be willing to do whatever it takes. Don't continue to hold on to facets of your life, places, people, or things that need to be eliminated from your life. 

And if your hand or your foot causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life crippled or lame than with two hands or two feet to be thrown into the eternal fire. And if your eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into the hell of fire.”

‭‭Matthew‬ ‭18:8-9‬ ‭ESV‬‬

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Join as we dive into these topics in Part 2 of our story where we hear from Lisa and what God taught her along the way as life, as she knew it, fell apart. 

As always, our prayer is always that you turn to Jesus and trust Him for healing no matter what you are facing.

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