In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and Maryanne Michaelis continue their exploration of intimacy by focusing on verbal and emotional intimacy. They discuss how curiosity, vulnerability, and emotional expression create deeper connection—while assumptions, fear, and unspoken emotions quietly erode it.

Through personal stories, clinical insight, and practical examples, they show how verbal intimacy often opens the door to emotional intimacy—and how safe, intentional communication strengthens relationships with partners, children, and community. The episode also addresses why intimacy can feel unsafe after trauma or betrayal and how to begin rebuilding connection in healthy, realistic ways.

The connection between verbal intimacy and emotional intimacy

Why curiosity (“Tell me more”) deepens connection

How assumptions block intimacy—even in long-term relationships

Using “I feel” statements instead of blame or shame

Emotional safety, boundaries, and timing in disclosure

The role of community in helping people find words after trauma

Applying intimacy skills in parenting and everyday relationships

Understanding inner circles of trust and emotional access

Psychological safety as the foundation for intimacy

Mirror neurons and emotional attunement

Self-disclosure vs. emotional flooding

Differentiation in relationships

Trauma-informed communication

The healing power of shared experience and community

The themes discussed in this episode—connection, vulnerability, emotional safety, and repair—will be explored in depth at the upcoming Human Intimacy Conference.

📅 March 13–14

This two-day conference is designed for individuals and couples seeking healing and deeper connection after betrayal. It includes:

Separate individual and couples tracks

Live and recorded expert presentations

Trauma-informed yoga sessions

On-demand access to all recordings

Bonus access to last year’s full conference recordings

🎟️ Special Discount:

🔗 Register here:

Who in my life feels safe enough for deeper verbal and emotional intimacy?

Where do I assume instead of asking curious, open questions?

What emotions have I been holding inside that may need safe expression?

Verbal and emotional intimacy grow when we show up, stay curious, and speak honestly—without blame or assumption. Intimacy isn’t about perfect words; it’s about presence, safety, and the courage to be seen.