How do we rebuild faith after church hurt, betrayal, and deconstruction? Sophie Cherry joins Mike Erre for a powerful and timely conversation about navigating spiritual trauma, gender roles in the church, and finding a renewed passion for Jesus that survives the brokenness of Christian institutions. Drawing from her own story of being raised a pastor’s kid, burned by ministry, and rediscovering the gospel, Sophie offers a fresh, compassionate perspective for those grappling with disillusionment.
Together, Mike and Sophie dive into what it looks like to love Jesus while wrestling with the harm his followers sometimes cause, including powerful insights on cultural apologetics, deconversion trends, and the role of women in the modern church. They also take on listener questions related to faith in the workplace, gender dynamics, sexuality, and whether Leviticus really still matters.
Key Takeaways: • Restoring Faith After Church Hurt – Sophie recounts her painful experience of being ostracized by a ministry community, what it taught her about grace, and how it opened her eyes to the marginalization many experience at the hands of Christians. • The Power of Apologetics in a Post-Christian World – Cultural apologetics helps address not just whether Christianity is plausible, but whether it is desirable—a question increasingly at the heart of the modern deconstruction movement. • Jesus vs. Christendom – Disentangling the beauty of Jesus from the brutality of how his name is often represented by toxic Christian behavior. • Gender, Power, and the Church – An honest examination of complementarian vs. egalitarian theology, women in church leadership, and how male-dominated structures often protect abuse and diminish female voices. • How to Witness with Wisdom – Sophie and Mike respond to a listener's heartfelt dilemma about being missional while maintaining safety and healthy boundaries in male-dominated workplaces. • Leviticus, Sexual Ethics, and Cultural Tension – Responding to questions about Old Testament law, modern sexuality, and how to read ancient commands through a Jesus-centered lens.
Guest Highlights: Sophie Cherry – Cultural apologist, mom, and former ministry intern turned thoughtful Jesus-follower. Her story of redemption through disillusionment offers poignant insight for the spiritually displaced. Sophie brings empathy, clarity, and a deep love for outsiders while never losing sight of the beauty of the gospel.
Resources Mentioned: • Oxford Bible Fellowship – https://oxfordbiblefellowship.org/ • Young Life Ministries – http://younglife.org • Dallas Willard – On joyful non-compliance and spiritual formation • Ray Vander Laan – Teachings on biblical landscapes and cultural context • Leviticus 18 – Scripture context for biblical sexual ethics (https://biblegateway.com) • NT Wright Podcast – https://www.ntwrightonline.org/podcast/
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