July 09, 2024

What is Codependency within us?

1 hour 18 minutes

In this compelling episode of "Beyond Codependency," Jenna Dayle delves deep into the intricate dynamics alive within you when codependency is present. This includes emotional dependency, distress intolerance, enmeshment and identity validation.

Drawing from her personal experiences and professional insights, Jenna offers a comprehensive understanding of how these behaviors manifest and impact relationships, self-esteem, and decision-making. She also provides practical advice and tools for listeners striving to overcome these challenges and cultivate healthier, more balanced lives.

Key Topics Covered:

Emotional Dependency: Jenna explores the roots and consequences of emotional dependency, emphasizing the difficulty codependents face in being alone and managing their own emotions. She discusses the importance of learning to hold and be with one's own emotional experiences.

Distress Intolerance: A deep dive into distress intolerance, defined as the perceived inability to fully experience unpleasant emotions and the desperate need to escape them. Jenna highlights the importance of being able to tolerate one's own discomfort, especially in relation to others.

Enmeshment: Understanding enmeshment and the lack of personal energetic containment. Jenna explains how codependents often take on the emotions and responsibilities of others, blurring the lines between their own identity, feelings and experiences - and those they care for.

Identity Validation: Jenna examines the need for identity validation and how codependents often seek reassurance of their worth and value through others. She discusses the dangers of losing oneself in the process of trying to be what others need or want.

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Keywords: Emotional Dependency, Distress Intolerance, Codependency, Enmeshment, Identity Validation, Personal Growth, Self-Esteem, Emotional Regulation, Boundaries, Healthy Relationships, Jenna Dayle, Beyond Codependency Podcast, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice

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