Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments

What To Do When Our Child Says “I Hate You”


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Have you ever been stung by your child's words? Have you felt the sting of "I hate you" or "shut up" from those you love most? It's a moment that cuts deep, triggering a whirlwind of emotions and questions about our parenting. But what if I told you it's not about us?


Today, I explore the reasons behind hurtful moments, how children react, and how we can respond with grace and empathy. I’ll share some practical tips on supporting our children's emotions without disregarding our own and why punishment is not the solution. It's all about understanding, connection, and allowing our children to express their feelings without judgment. Ultimately, it's not just about how they communicate with us but how we choose to respond that truly makes a difference.


In this Episode

  • Understanding children's emotional outbursts
  • How to shift focus from personal to empathetic responses
  • The importance of holding space for children's feelings
  • Exploring the impact of punishment on communication
  • Recognizing the role of your environment in behavior
  • Embracing grace and compassion in parenting


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Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without PunishmentsBy Michelle Kenney, M. Ed

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