What Would Love Do?

Do High-Quality Men (Men Over 40) Exist? with @raydoktor What does “high-quality” mean when we’re talking about men (and women)? Basically it means that men are doing inner work and acknowledging that they’re growing as a person daily. High-quality men don’t run away from conversations about feelings and what they want in a relationship. On […]

Why A Man CHOOSES You Over ANOTHER Woman Did you realize that how we related to our parents during our early childhood years deeply affects how we choose our partners later in life? The lessons we learn from the primary adults in our lives from birth through age 8 or 9 shape our personalities and […]

Attachment Styles: Why We Choose Who We Choose w/Dr. Stan Tatkin You’ve heard me talk about attachment styles before but today we’re diving deep with Dr. Stan Tatkin to really understand what each style means and how each style manifests during the early stages of a relationship. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, researcher, […]

Men Have a Hard Time Not THINKING ABOUT YOU When You Tell Them This Relationships are built on connections and in the early stages of dating someone new, a strong connection can begin to propel the relationship forward. This is often where lust and limerence come into play and everything about this person is new […]

Men (Over 40) Need THIS From a Woman To Fully Commit Commitment for some men is a dirty word. Sometimes men are left reeling after a divorce, so the last thing they want is a serious relationship. When a man is widowed, they can feel guilt when they want to start dating. But none of […]

Try THIS To Meet High-Quality Men Over 40 with Guest Sabrina Rising I’m thrilled to have fellow coach Sabrina Rising as my guest because there are always different perspectives when it comes to giving advice and seeing the same situations from a male vs female vantage point. One quote from this episode that really stuck […]

3 Early Signs He’s Ready For Commitment With You I do NOT believe that being in your midlife years condemns you to being single for the rest of your days. In fact, since we humans are living longer – many into their 90s – that should be even more incentive to enjoy the company of […]

Use THESE Techniques To Attract A High Quality Man Do you remember the movie Groundhog Day with Bill Murray? In the movie, his character wakes up to the EXACT same song on the radio and same conversations with coworkers and friends. It takes the whole movie and a lesson that he had to learn before […]

Men (Over 40) Who Exhibit THIS Make Good Life Partners Believe it or not, not all men over 40 are players and there are many who want to find a life partner. Yes, the over 40 age group often comes with trauma from divorce or other bad relationships but by no means does that mean […]

Can He Love Me If Our Attachment Style Is Off? Technology is wonderful but too much can obviously cause problems in our lives. One example is texting. The ability to send short notes to people is certainly convenient but in the dating world, depending on texting as a primary way to communicate can give a […]