Why Most Dating Advice about Men is WRONG!

The following is a bit of judgment and I ask a bit of latitude to explain…

From what I’ve noticed in the area of dating advice about men, it is mostly women talking about how men “should” act instead of hearing from men on how men act.

It is like asking a man to describe what it’s like to give birth or what it feels like to go through a monthly menstrual cycle… men can’t.

Therefore, if you’re hearing advice about men, is it based on human behavior or what women want to hear?

In today’s episode, we are going to explore the most common dating advice about men and why it might be setting women up for FAILURE in their relationships.

Let’s talk about… Why Most Dating Advice About Men Is Wrong

Resources:

1 on 1 Call with me: http://www.jonathonaslay.com/schedule-a-coaching-call

5 Qualities Men Seek In A Women (FREE GIFT) http://www.jonathonaslay.com/qualities

Mid-Life Love Mastery — http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove

Self-Love the Book: http://www.selflovethebook.com

 

What My Son Taught Me About Love

If you’ve been following my work for a little bit, you might have heard that I lost my 19-year-old son Connor in the summer of 2018.

If you’re a parent reading this, you know the scariest thing in a parent’s life can simply be the thought of losing a child can cause deep pain. In my world, it did happen and what followed changed my life.

In today’s episode, I will be sharing a very personal experience as well as a universal lesson my son taught me which inspired me to even host this podcast.

Let’s talk about… What My 19-Year-Old Son Taught Me About Love

Resources:

1 on 1 Call with me: http://www.jonathonaslay.com/schedule-a-coaching-call

5 Qualities Men Seek In A Women (FREE GIFT) http://www.jonathonaslay.com/qualities

Mid-Life Love Mastery — http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove

Self-Love the Book: http://www.selflovethebook.com

 

Do Men Date Differently than Women?

While I’m sure you’ve heard how men are visual creatures and they tend to focus on the physical aspects of a person, is this it for me?

What about women who tend to focus on the status of a man, is that true?

In today’s episode, we are going to explore the dating process from the perspective of how some men operate vs. how some women operate when it comes to dating, mating & relating.

Let’s talk about… Do Men Date Differently Than Women?

Resources:

1 on 1 Call with me: http://www.jonathonaslay.com/schedule-a-coaching-call

5 Qualities Men Seek In A Women (FREE GIFT) http://www.jonathonaslay.com/qualities

Mid-Life Love Mastery — http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove

Self-Love the Book: http://www.selflovethebook.com

 

Men Fall in Love Through Dumb Luck

Have you noticed that most books about relationships are purchased by women vs. men?

In fact, there’s a good chance this might be at a ratio of 9 to 1, meaning women are more interested in understanding relationships far more than men.

Here’s the thing, men often focus on ONE aspect of the mating dance which has nothing to do with how to navigate the mating dance.

In today’s episode, we are going to explore the DEEPER questions one might ask before diving into the dating process.

Let’s talk about… Men Fall in Love Through Dumb Luck

Resources:

1 on 1 Call with me: http://www.jonathonaslay.com/schedule-a-coaching-call

5 Qualities Men Seek In A Women (FREE GIFT) http://www.jonathonaslay.com/qualities

Mid-Life Love Mastery — http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove

Self-Love the Book: http://www.selflovethebook.com

 

Where to Meet Quality Men (Finally the Answer)

If I had a nickel for every time I’ve heard from women asking “where to meet quality men”? I’d be rich… oh wait, I am rich (rich in heart that is).

Now let me just say, I understand why this question is being asked because in a sea of so many emotionally wounded people, it’s hard to see our soul mate… even if they are standing in front of us.

In today’s episode, we are going to explore the concept of how to find our potential match to go down the path of dating, mating & relating.

Let’s talk about… Where to Meet Quality Men (Finally the Answer).

Resources:

1 on 1 Call with me: http://www.jonathonaslay.com/schedule-a-coaching-call

5 Qualities Men Seek In A Women (FREE GIFT) http://www.jonathonaslay.com/qualities

Mid-Life Love Mastery — http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove

Self-Love the Book: http://www.selflovethebook.com

 

When It Comes to Men, Feelings Aren’t Facts

Are you a woman who is seeking a romantic relationship or you are in one right now?

If you answered yes, I want to share something interesting I’ve noticed as a male dating and relationship coach who helps women understand men… women are more interested in understanding men and men just want to know how to meet women.

This is one of the differences between how most men & women operate in the dating process and there’s something else I’ve noticed about women; women misinterpret men and their feelings.

Women often hear words from men and make them out to be something different than what men really mean.

In today’s episode, we are going to explore the DEEPER dynamics of feelings (from the perspective of what would love do?) and how men say one thing but it might mean something else.

Let’s talk about… When It Comes to Men, Feelings Aren’t Facts.

Resources:

1 on 1 Call with me: http://www.jonathonaslay.com/schedule-a-coaching-call

5 Qualities Men Seek In A Women (FREE GIFT) http://www.jonathonaslay.com/qualities

Mid-Life Love Mastery — http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove

Self-Love the Book: http://www.selflovethebook.com

 

Men Need to Grow the F Up When Dating

Are you a woman who is tired of dating men who act like children?

Let’s face it, the fantasy that men will show up as Knights in shining armor is an old approach and it’s based on the assumption that all men are emotionally healthy.

Now here’s the thing, the title of this podcast might sound like it’s directed at men and while in some ways it is, it’s important for all humans to show up as grown-ups when it comes to dating, mating & relating if they want lasting love.

In today’s episode, we are going to explore the DEEPER issues that face men from the eyes of love when it comes to dating to better understand why so many people lack emotional maturity.

Let’s talk about… Men Need to Grow the F Up When Dating.

Resources:

1 on 1 Call with me: http://www.jonathonaslay.com/schedule-a-coaching-call

5 Qualities Men Seek In A Women (FREE GIFT) http://www.jonathonaslay.com/qualities

Mid-Life Love Mastery — http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove

Self-Love the Book: http://www.selflovethebook.com

 

A Man’s View on Sex, Ghosting, and Commitment

As a dating and relationship coach for women, not a day goes by without a question related to sex, ghosting or commitment.

In fact, these are the most popular search terms from women and my suspicion is that women are fascinated with the “why” do men do what they do. In contrast, men are more likely to search for how to meet women.

Let’s face it, when we understand the “why” of something, we can predict behavior and when we can predict behavior, we can make better choices. And yet sadly, many women (as well as men) become bitter or jaded to the dating process because there is too much focus on blame and not enough on love.

In today’s episode, we are going to explore these commonly searched terms from the eyes of love because understanding leads to more love.

Let’s talk about… A Man’s View on Sex, Ghosting, and Commitment

Resources:

1 on 1 Call with me: http://www.jonathonaslay.com/schedule-a-coaching-call

5 Qualities Men Seek In A Women (FREE GIFT) http://www.jonathonaslay.com/qualities

Mid-Life Love Mastery — http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove

Self-Love the Book: http://www.selflovethebook.com

 

How to Set Healthy Boundaries with Men (and Women)

Brene’ Brown said it best, boundaries are “what’s okay and not okay for me” and if you’re currently dating or in a relationship, boundaries can often be exceedingly difficult to set.

Speaking up for “what one wants” in a relationship can be a challenge because most people (especially women) fear their partner will leave.

Being in fear is no way to maintain a healthy relationship because at some point it will implode if a person is continually stuffing their feelings.

In today’s episode, we are going to explore boundaries from the perspective of “what would love do?”

Let’s talk about… How to Set Healthy Boundaries with Men (and Women)

Resources:

1 on 1 Call with me: http://www.jonathonaslay.com/schedule-a-coaching-call

5 Qualities Men Seek In A Women (FREE GIFT) http://www.jonathonaslay.com/qualities

Mid-Life Love Mastery — http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove

Self-Love the Book: http://www.selflovethebook.com

 

How to Date Like a Grown-Up

Until I became a dating and relationship coach, I had no clue how relationships worked. What I mean is the mechanics of a relationship. Mechanics is the basic give and receive dynamic needed for success, unlike the way I approached it because I was mostly focused on myself and not the other.

Basically, my relationship IQ was almost non-existent and now I know, I am not alone. This is why I dated with the belief that chemistry was all that was needed to have a successful relationship and boy was I in for a big surprise… the deception of chemistry.

In today’s episode, we are going to explore a more conscious and purposeful way to approach the dating process from the perspective of “what would love do?”.

Let’s talk about… How to Date Like a Grown-Up.

Resources:

1 on 1 Call with me: http://www.jonathonaslay.com/schedule-a-coaching-call

5 Qualities Men Seek In A Women (FREE GIFT) http://www.jonathonaslay.com/qualities

Mid-Life Love Mastery — http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove

Self-Love the Book: http://www.selflovethebook.com