What Would Love Do?

7 Deep Questions to Ask a Guy to Build Attraction (#4 is Weird)

As a dating & relationship coach for over a decade, I’ve noticed that most humans are rather bad at the dating process from a place of choosing a good partner.

In fact, I believe that most people have poor skills when it comes to asking good deep interpersonal questions of one another, and most people who are dating talk at a rather surface level in my opinion.

Asking good questions is the bedrock of good factfinding skills because that’s what dating is… a fact-finding mission before entering into a relationship.

In today’s episode, we will explore the DEEPER conversation of what I believe are better questions to ask while in the dating process.

Let’s talk about… 7 Deep Questions to Ask a Guy to Build Attraction (#4 is Weird)

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Is He Gaslighting You? 5 Common Phrases Men Say…

Do you know what gaslighting is?

Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which a person or a group covertly sows seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or group, making them question their own memory, perception, or judgment.

Here’s the thing, gaslighting often gets confused with your average everyday defensive behavior most humans experience.

Defensiveness is often a deflection mechanism people perform to avoid the problems they might be facing at any given moment.

Understanding the difference might help you have more compassion for another vs. judging bad behavior as making the person out to be wrong.

In today’s episode, we will explore the DEEPER understanding of gaslighting and defensive experiences because when we understand something, we can make better choices.

Let’s talk about… Is He Gaslighting You? 5 Common Phrases Men Say…

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5 Signs You’re On His Mind (In a Good Way), And He Cares

They often say that men care the most when they miss you, and I say… BULL.

When someone misses you, that’s the unhealthy way a person demonstrates care vs. the healthy way of appreciating someone.

When a man cares about you in a good way, you’ll be on his mind for very positive reasons that show real love for another human being.

In today’s episode, we will explore the DEEPER conversation centered on the things men do when they show you they truly care about you.

Let’s talk about… 5 Signs You’re On His Mind (In a Good Way), And He Cares

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Who Pays On A Date? Let’s Talk About Money

Did you know that about 50% of divorces cite money as one of the problems in their relationship, and it seems to me that most humans are naive or scared to talk about money when dating?

Here’s the thing, throughout history, men have been expected to pay because men have been the breadwinner in most marriages, and the reality is, times have changed given that women actually outnumber men in the workforce.

Women now have access to the resources to take care of themselves and not be dependent on a man, which has created some confusion (on the narrative) of who pays for a date which is why it’s time to talk about money when dating.

In today’s episode, we will explore the DEEPER conversation about money when dating and who should pay for dates.

Let’s talk about… Who Pays On A Date? Let’s Talk About Money

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8 Things Men Say To Avoid Conflict (Gaslighting)

If you haven’t heard the term gaslighting before, it relates to people who get defensive and turn things around when faced with an issue in a relationship.

Here’s the thing, every relationship is going to have conflict or issues, and it’s rather common for most humans to get defensive because taking ownership for one’s actions seems to be rare these days.

In fact, when conflict occurs, many men have common phrases they say to avoid conflict altogether, which is why this is an important topic.

In today’s episode, we will explore the DEEPER conversation about why this happens and what to do about it if you’ve experienced garden variety defensiveness or true gaslighting.

Let’s talk about… 8 Things Men Say To Avoid Conflict (Gaslighting)

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He Says: I’m Not Looking For Anything Serious

Has this ever happened to you?

You meet what appears to be a great guy, and the two of you really hit it off from a dating, mating & relating perspective. In fact, you really like this guy, and somewhere between the 1st and the time you sleep together, he says: I’m not looking for anything serious.

Now you might be thinking, “well, I’m not looking for anything serious as well,” and you go about exploring a relationship with him, but here’s the thing, you have sex together, and he doesn’t even want to call you his girlfriend because he laid out he does not want anything serious.

Now may I ask you, do you want a serious relationship?

If the answer is yes, why would you invest time, energy, and your body in a person who is not on the same page?

In today’s episode, we will explore the DEEPER understanding of what it means to be in a relationship and what to do if a man says this to you.

Let’s talk about… He Says: I’m Not Looking For Anything Serious

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Can A Woman Ask A Guy Out? (According To Men)

There seems to be a continual debate about whether a woman can ask a man out on a date, and there seems to be a fear that it will upset the delicate balance of masculine & feminine energy.

This cracks me up… the whole notion that humans are so delicate (as I said before) that the sky will fall if a woman makes the first move, and the funny thing, women have been making the first move for centuries it just seems that most people have forgotten or they didn’t pay attention in history class.

What’s more fascinating on this subject is how men feel about this, which is why I reached out to 15000 men asking how they feel about women who make an effort in the early stages of dating, and the responses were amazing.

In today’s episode, we will explore the DEEPER conversation of the benefit of women making an effort early on and why men actually can respect a woman greater if she does.

Let’s talk about… Can A Woman Ask A Guy Out? (According To Men)

 

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Ask Him THESE Questions Before Sleeping Together

If you follow my work for a while, you’ll know that I see the dating process as a fact-finding mission to determine if two people are a fit for a long-term relationship. Also, I (now) view the act of sex as a bonding experience vs. a pump & dump experience (apologies if that sounded crude).

This is why I look at sleeping with someone as a big deal, and it should not be taken lightly. Unfortunately, many men do take it lightly, and this is why I want my clients to take a more strategic approach before choosing to have sex.

In today’s episode, we will explore the need to have a DEEPER conversation with a man before sleeping together to avoid heartbreak in the future.

Let’s talk about… Ask Him THESE Questions Before Sleeping Together

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Should I Date A Man I’m Not Attracted To?

Here’s a question that keeps coming up again and again in my coaching practice, and I thought would be worth exploring all facets of this subject.

Let’s face it, the feeling of attraction is an important part of the dating process, which includes feeling excitement months or years later… that little spark.

It’s often hard to describe attraction, and humans often focus more on the superficial stuff vs. seeing the attraction in one’s heart.

In today’s episode, we will explore the DEEPER conversation centered around what happens if you’re not attracted to someone on the first date and what to do next.

Let’s talk about… Should I Date A Man I’m Not Attracted To?

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Why Men Ignore You (Even When There’s Great Chemistry)

Recently, one of my private group members asked a question about how she had a totally awesome date, and then the next morning, she received a message from him saying he wasn’t feeling it the next morning.

She thought they had great chemistry, and when she went home that night, she thought he might be the one or someone worth investing in, and now she’s scratching her head wondering what the heck happened?

So, now I’m going to ask you, has this ever happened to you?

You meet a good guy, he comes on strong, he’s into you, and there’s lots of mutual chemistry…. you might even think he’s the one.

It could be a few weeks or a few months into this great relationship only to find out he’s changed his mind… and you might be asking yourself, what the heck happened?

In today’s episode, we will explore the DEEPER reason why this happens so often and what to look for, so it doesn’t happen again.

Let’s talk about… Why Men Ignore You (Even When There’s Great Chemistry)

 

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