Let's face it, it's not uncommon (these days) to have little or no REAL discussion about commitment before having sex.

Recently one of the members in my private group was asking about this before having sex, and I felt there is a disconnect between how men and women view commitment altogether.

Here's the tricky thing about men and women; men often find love through sex, and women often need love to be open to sex. And because of this, if a man is chasing sex, it's hard to know if he wants you or the experience of a sexual encounter.

They say men are the gas, and women are the breaks. So when a woman is making a man wait or the phrase, "all good things come to those who wait," this can be a turn-off, and today, I'd like to explore a different conversation about sex & commitment from the eyes of love.

Let's talk about... How Men View Commitment Before Sex

While it's rare a woman doesn't know a man's intentions, these days, it might be a bit confusing to determine a man's intent if he isn't chasing sex. That's right, not all men are just in it for sex and this is especially true as men begin to age, the drive for sex isn't as high.

The reality is, men seek feminine connection, and if there isn't that strong spark, they'll invest time in a woman merely for her company. This dynamic happens in reverse, and all you ladies know it.

Today we are going to explore "from the eyes of love" this often experienced occurrence in the mid-life dating realm where some men only want to be friends but look like they want a relationship.

Let's talk about... Are We Friends Or Are We Dating?

While it's rare a woman doesn't know a man's intentions, these days, it might be a bit confusing to determine a man's intent if he isn't chasing sex. That's right, not all men are just in it for sex and this is especially true as men begin to age, the drive for sex isn't as high.

The reality is, men seek feminine connection, and if there isn't that strong spark, they'll invest time in a woman merely for her company. This dynamic happens in reverse, and all you ladies know it.

Today we are going to explore "from the eyes of love" this often experienced occurrence in the mid-life dating realm where some men only want to be friends but look like they want a relationship.

Let's talk about... Are We Friends Or Are We Dating?

It's funny because for years I hear how women have amazing intuition and yet as a dating coach, I've often wondered if that was "true" given how many complaints I hear about women choosing bad/wrong men.

Now here's the thing, my guess is there were warning signs of bad, unhealthy or misaligned behavior but in many cases, Ego or Fear talks us out of it because it likes to fuck with our intuition.

To simply put it, our intuition is that gut feeling. Two keywords, gut & feeling. Gut, in our stomach and feeling, well, that means something is off.

Today we are going to explore the "feeling" part when it comes to dating, mating & relating and from the eyes of love.

Let's talk about... How To Trust Your Intuition

It's funny because for years I hear how women have amazing intuition and yet as a dating coach, I've often wondered if that was "true" given how many complaints I hear about women choosing bad/wrong men.

Now here's the thing, my guess is there were warning signs of bad, unhealthy or misaligned behavior but in many cases, Ego or Fear talks us out of it because it likes to fuck with our intuition.

To simply put it, our intuition is that gut feeling. Two keywords, gut & feeling. Gut, in our stomach and feeling, well, that means something is off.

Today we are going to explore the "feeling" part when it comes to dating, mating & relating and from the eyes of love.

Let's talk about... How To Trust Your Intuition

The What Would Love Do? Podcast explores life, love and inner peace through and with the eyes of love.

LOVE - one of the most powerful forces in the Universe is an often overlooked remedy to solving much of our cares and woes. Love (especially Self-Love) is an antidote to emotional chaos, and you are invited to use LOVE as a method of shifting to greater inner peace.

Each week we explore a variety of topics in the area of romantic (as well as interpersonal) relationships from the perspective of navigating life with love in our hearts.

The What Would Love Do? Podcast explores life, love and inner peace through and with the eyes of love.

LOVE - one of the most powerful forces in the Universe is an often overlooked remedy to solving much of our cares and woes. Love (especially Self-Love) is an antidote to emotional chaos, and you are invited to use LOVE as a method of shifting to greater inner peace.

Each week we explore a variety of topics in the area of romantic (as well as interpersonal) relationships from the perspective of navigating life with love in our hearts.

Michelle met David online 2-1/2 years ago. They fell in love and are now about to move into their new home together.

They have what I call the “ultimate” love story. Not only did they seem to be wildly compatible from the beginning, but they have actually become much happier, more “grown-up” people as a RESULT of the struggles they encountered in their relationship.

Their relationship is the pinnacle of what I consider to be a “success.”

It’s not because they have outrageous chemistry for each other – although don’t get me wrong, they seem VERY into each other. And it’s not because they never disagree or have difficulties. In fact, you’ll hear about an issue that came up a year into their relationship that would likely break up most couples, but instead made their relationship better.

I wanted you to hear that a relationship that looks “perfect” on the outside isn’t perfect at all. I wanted you to hear for yourself that there ARE good men out there, but finding those good men means changing something within YOURSELF.

You’ll see what I mean…

Listen in on this 40-minute conversation I have with this amazing couple and find out:

* What was it about her profile that got David’s attention and why? And what turned him OFF from other women’s online profiles? (Heed this advice if you want more positive attention from your online profile.)

* What happened when a year into their relationship David was faced with the question, “Where is this relationship headed?” and instead of feeling happy anticipation, he felt trepidation. Hear what the mental obstacle was to him moving forward with the relationship and how he overcame it. (This is a must-know for any woman who is starting a committed relationship with a man.)

* Learn why I gave David big accolades about 25 minutes into the interview because he SO GOT something that’s so essential to the happiness of ANY relationship. (And why most people skip this part and end up being miserable in love as a result.)

And if you’re ready to finally understand men better and build a lasting, loving relationship as Michelle and David have, then let’s connect for a no-obligation exploratory call. I’d love to know more about you and to help you with falling madly in love with Mr. Right.

Click here to schedule a call.

Michelle met David online 2-1/2 years ago. They fell in love and are now about to move into their new home together.

They have what I call the “ultimate” love story. Not only did they seem to be wildly compatible from the beginning, but they have actually become much happier, more “grown-up” people as a RESULT of the struggles they encountered in their relationship.

Their relationship is the pinnacle of what I consider to be a “success.”

It’s not because they have outrageous chemistry for each other – although don’t get me wrong, they seem VERY into each other. And it’s not because they never disagree or have difficulties. In fact, you’ll hear about an issue that came up a year into their relationship that would likely break up most couples, but instead made their relationship better.

I wanted you to hear that a relationship that looks “perfect” on the outside isn’t perfect at all. I wanted you to hear for yourself that there ARE good men out there, but finding those good men means changing something within YOURSELF.

You’ll see what I mean…

Listen in on this 40-minute conversation I have with this amazing couple and find out:

* What was it about her profile that got David’s attention and why? And what turned him OFF from other women’s online profiles? (Heed this advice if you want more positive attention from your online profile.)

* What happened when a year into their relationship David was faced with the question, “Where is this relationship headed?” and instead of feeling happy anticipation, he felt trepidation. Hear what the mental obstacle was to him moving forward with the relationship and how he overcame it. (This is a must-know for any woman who is starting a committed relationship with a man.)

* Learn why I gave David big accolades about 25 minutes into the interview because he SO GOT something that’s so essential to the happiness of ANY relationship. (And why most people skip this part and end up being miserable in love as a result.)

And if you’re ready to finally understand men better and build a lasting, loving relationship as Michelle and David have, then let’s connect for a no-obligation exploratory call. I’d love to know more about you and to help you with falling madly in love with Mr. Right.

Click here to schedule a call.