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If you're interested in being part of my lifetime coaching circle, email me at [email protected] and request an intro call to learn more.
You say you want deep love—but you keep chasing men who can’t give it.
You overthink, overgive, and anxiously wait for crumbs… but real intimacy? That scares you.
What if your anxious attachment isn’t about needing too much—but about avoiding the intimacy of being truly seen? In this episode, we'll reveal the hidden avoidance behind anxious behavior—and why the chase feels safer than actually being chosen.
By Shane Kohler5
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If you're interested in being part of my lifetime coaching circle, email me at [email protected] and request an intro call to learn more.
You say you want deep love—but you keep chasing men who can’t give it.
You overthink, overgive, and anxiously wait for crumbs… but real intimacy? That scares you.
What if your anxious attachment isn’t about needing too much—but about avoiding the intimacy of being truly seen? In this episode, we'll reveal the hidden avoidance behind anxious behavior—and why the chase feels safer than actually being chosen.

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