Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments

Why Connective Parenting Feels Like It's Failing (and How to Make It Work)


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Ever feel like connection-based parenting just isn’t working? You try play, empathy, and special time, but your child still melts down, refuses to listen, or lashes out. Does that mean connective parenting has failed? Today, I break down the biggest misconceptions about connective parenting, including why it’s often confused with permissiveness, why quick fixes don’t work, and why consistency matters more than perfection.


If you've ever wondered why punishments seem to “work” faster or felt frustrated that your efforts aren’t yielding immediate results, this episode will help you reframe your expectations and find the patience to stick with it. Parenting is a long game, and while the process can be messy, the relationships we build through connection are worth it.


In This Episode

  • Why quick fixes don’t create lasting change
  • The difference between connection and permissiveness
  • How punishments create short-term compliance, not true cooperation
  • Why using all the tools consistently is key
  • The long-term benefits of choosing connection
  • A real-life story of connection turning conflict into cooperation


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Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without PunishmentsBy Michelle Kenney, M. Ed

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