Let's Talk About Mental Health

Why family estrangement messes with your head (Episode 328)


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Family estrangement can mess with your head in ways other people rarely understand. Whether you’re estranged from family, dealing with no contact, trying to make sense of being cut off, or asking yourself why family estrangement hurts so much, this kind of loss can have a huge impact on your mental health and emotional wellbeing.

In this week’s episode of the Let’s Talk About Mental Health podcast, I’m talking about family estrangement, including: what estrangement really is, estrangement grief, and how to cope with family estrangement when family ties are broken or when family cuts contact. I explore why going no contact is rarely ever a simple choice, how toxic family relationships can lead to distance or disconnection, and what emotional healing can look like when you’re estranged from parents, part of an estranged family, or stuck in the middle of estranged families and dysfunctional family dynamics. I also talk about peace of mind, healing, and what to do when you’re dealing with other people’s painful questions or opinions (like “but she’s your mother”), or wondering how to cut contact with family without losing yourself in the process. 


👉 Ready to make sense of family estrangement and protect your peace? Then let’s talk!


💡 TL;DR: If you’re dealing with family estrangement or having no contact, this episode will help you understand why being estranged from family hurts so much, what estrangement grief really does to you, and how to start healing without pretending it doesn’t hurt… regardless of which side of the estrangement fence you’re on.


Let’s Talk About Mental Health with Jeremy Godwin is all about practical mental health advice for real life; each week I teach you how to improve your mental wellbeing with simple tips that actually work, drawing on my professional expertise as a counsellor as well as my personal experience living with anxiety and depression. Welcome to the conversation!


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⏱️ Chapters/Timestamps:

0:00 Estrangement and mental health

0:36 How to cope with family estrangement 

5:48 What is family estrangement?

8:59 Why family estrangement affects your mental health

12:44 How to deal with family estrangement 

23:50 Final tips for dealing with estrangement


📝 Transcript & show notes: https://ltamh.com/?p=19952       


📖 Buy ‘Life Advice That Doesn’t Suck’: https://jeremygodwin.com.au/latds/


Related episodes:

Why your family boundaries don’t stick (Episode 312): https://ltamh.com/?p=19035 

Finding closure when they won’t forgive you (Episode 324): https://ltamh.com/?p=19676 


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Hi! I’m Jeremy Godwin, writer and counsellor plus the host of the Let’s Talk About Mental Health podcast, your weekly dose of practical advice for better mental health. I share straightforward tips to help you protect your peace and cultivate better mental health, with new episodes every Sunday.


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