Have you ever found yourself comparing your journey or your results to someone else’s? Have asked yourself questions like: Why hasn’t it happened yet? What am I doing wrong? Why does it feel so hard?

If so: you’re not alone. It’s common to use other people’s timelines or results as a measure of what we should do or should have in a certain amount of time.

But here’s what I’ve learned about this: I have NO idea how someone got their results. None. And so to compare myself and what I have (or don’t have) is simply a waste of time, energy and focus.

Instead of asking “why not me?” I’ve learned to ask different questions - questions like “who must I become to get what I want? What must I learn to get what I want? How must I be patient to get what I want?

If you want to know my exact process for getting out of the comparison trap and staying focused on what matters, click play now to hear me share:

• [00:20] The common questions that we ask when we’re comparing ourselves
• [02:02] The reality of what we see v. what we don’t see
• [03:42] The questions that can help us refocus and get results
• [07:47] The importance of celebrating others
• [08:29] “What is this all for?” - the question I asked myself a few weeks ago in yoga class and how I answered it
• [10:36] How to enjoy the process, even when it’s hard
• [15:16] A summary of the three-step framework I use to move out of comparison quickly

For full show notes, visit: jasminestar.com/podcast/episode339