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Most women feel stuck in the same impossible dilemma.
If you say what you want, you risk pushing him away.
If you hold it in, you slowly disappear inside the relationship.
So you oscillate.
Between being “too much.”
And pretending you don’t need much at all.
But somewhere in that tension… he starts to pull away.
In this episode, I’m breaking down the invisible dynamic that creates that pressure — and the path that allows you to stay true to yourself without forcing a future he hasn’t chosen yet.
There is a way to communicate desire without collapsing into need.
There is a way to invite commitment without demanding it.
And when you understand this shift, everything about how you approach dating changes.
If you’ve ever wondered why things feel so good… until they suddenly don’t — this one’s for you.
Let’s dive in.
By Shane Kohler5
8585 ratings
Most women feel stuck in the same impossible dilemma.
If you say what you want, you risk pushing him away.
If you hold it in, you slowly disappear inside the relationship.
So you oscillate.
Between being “too much.”
And pretending you don’t need much at all.
But somewhere in that tension… he starts to pull away.
In this episode, I’m breaking down the invisible dynamic that creates that pressure — and the path that allows you to stay true to yourself without forcing a future he hasn’t chosen yet.
There is a way to communicate desire without collapsing into need.
There is a way to invite commitment without demanding it.
And when you understand this shift, everything about how you approach dating changes.
If you’ve ever wondered why things feel so good… until they suddenly don’t — this one’s for you.
Let’s dive in.

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