In this episode, I sit down with  @markgroves  founder of Create The Love, to talk about relationships, breakups, attachment styles, and the quiet ways we abandon ourselves in love.We unpack why so many relationships fail, why women often stay too long, and how anxious and avoidant attachment patterns shape who we choose. Mark explains the difference between compromise and self-abandonment, how to spot real green flags and red flags, and why the most loving thing you can sometimes do is walk away.We also talk about divorce, boundaries, love bombing, emotional availability, and how to move toward a secure attachment without trying to fix or save someone else.If you’re healing from a breakup, questioning your patterns, or trying to build a healthier relationship, this conversation will change how you see love and yourself.Sponsors:Visit Seed.com/biohack and use my code BIOHACK20 for 20% off your first order. Puori: Use code biohackit for 20% off at https://puori.com/biohackit Vibrant Wellness: http://vibrant-wellness.com/biohackitChapters:00:00 Intro02:30 Breakups, divorce, and choosing yourself05:00 When leaving is the most loving choice07:00 Green flags, red flags, and love bombing10:15 Power dynamics, boundaries, and emotional safety14:30 Scarcity vs abundance in dating17:30 Why intimacy dies and resentment builds21:00 Why women leave relationships more often27:00 Attachment styles explained (anxious vs avoidant)33:30 Healing patterns, grief, and becoming secure44:00 How to fully come alive after a breakup47:20 Faith, trust, and what’s meant for you