May 07, 2026

Why She Goes Cold When You Try to Flirt with Maureen Pound

22 minutes

If you've stopped flirting with your partner because it never lands — or you feel like you need a manual just to send a text — you're not broken, and neither is she. In this episode, you'll learn why a non-response to a flirty message isn't rejection, and how to read the real signal so you stop pulling back at exactly the wrong moment. And when things do start moving again, make sure you're set up for success — grab Dr. Diane's free Lube Guide at mylibidodoc.com/lube-guide, because not all lube is created equal and the wrong one can kill the mood before it starts.

About the Guest:

*Maureen Pound

Expertise: Maureen Pound is committed to supporting people with sex, relationships and money. ??From her dating book where she provides practical steps for men to connect with women for fun or relationships to her viral TikTok videos where she shares how she became a millionaire and what women do wrong during sex. ??She is said the things that people are thinking but too afraid to say.

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Timestamps:

0:00 Introduction, Maureen Pound’s background, and today’s topic
3:02 Maureen’s research and writing her book
4:01 Key learnings from Maureen’s book
7:07 Compliments and their impact in relationships
9:46 Communicating sexual desires with specificity
10:42 Mistakes men make when initiating sexting
12:20 Tips for sexting in long-term relationships
15:00 How to handle receiving a sext
17:20 Responding to sexts when feeling unsure
19:41 Managing sexting amidst a busy day
21:22 Preview of part two and concluding thoughts

(0:00) Introduction, Maureen Pound’s background, and today’s topic

(3:02) Maureen’s research and writing her book

(4:01) Key learnings from Maureen’s book

(7:07) Compliments and their impact in relationships

(9:46) Communicating sexual desires with specificity

(10:42) Mistakes men make when initiating sexting

(12:20) Tips for sexting in long-term relationships

(15:00) How to handle receiving a sext

(17:20) Responding to sexts when feeling unsure

(19:41) Managing sexting amidst a busy day

(21:22) Preview of part two and concluding thoughts

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