Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments

Why Strong-Willed Kids Say No… and How to Turn It Into a Yes


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What if your child’s defiance wasn’t defiance at all but a powerful sense of self? Parenting strong-willed kids can feel like a battle, but what if the secret lies in less demand and more connection? Today, I dive into the unique challenges (and gifts) of raising strong-willed kids. From their sensitivity to their unwavering sense of autonomy, these children often test our patience and beliefs about control.


As a mom to a strong-willed child myself, I know how easy it is to slip into power struggles. But what if we reframed these moments as opportunities for growth? This episode is all about shifting from traditional notions of obedience to fostering genuine collaboration, helping our children and ourselves thrive in a relationship grounded in mutual respect and understanding.


In This Episode:

  • Understanding the strong-willed child’s psyche
  • Why connection beats control every time
  • The art of giving real choices, not ultimatums
  • Using empathy to defuse power struggles
  • Why low-demand parenting fosters better cooperation
  • Shifting from punishment to connection-based strategies


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