Why do we keep getting drawn to partners who can't give us what we need? In this episode, I explore the fascinating neurological and emotional reasons behind our attraction to emotionally unavailable people.

You'll learn how the same attachment systems that formed in childhood with your caregivers continue to shape your adult romantic relationships—and why rejection or abandonment can feel so overwhelming. I also break down the role of bonding hormones like oxytocin, dopamine-driven reward circuits, and stress regulation systems in how we connect with others.

We'll look at:

• How your early attachment patterns influence who you're attracted to.
• Why emotionally unavailable partners can feel so familiar and "comfortable."
• How unspoken childhood needs show up in adult relationships.
• The subtle ways we recreate childhood wounds in dating and partnerships.
• Practical steps to break the cycle, shift your perspective, and create healthier connections.

Whether you're single or in a relationship, this episode will give you the tools to spot unhealthy patterns, communicate your needs more effectively, and begin building relationships where you feel seen, safe, and valued.

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