You Will Be OK

By Sabrina Bendory

Join dating and self-worth coach Sabrina Bendory as she dives deep into the journey of personal transformation and finding healthy, lasting love. This podcast is your guide to building self-worth, bre... more

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July 02, 2026 How I Went From Single at 29 to Engaged, Married, and Pregnant at 30
When I was single and heartbroken at 29, I never could have imagined that within a year I'd be engaged, married, and pregnant.
If you are currently healing from a breakup, navigating the modern dating world, or feeling discouraged that everyone else is moving ahead while you’re standing still, this episode is for you. I'm sharing the raw, personal story of how my life completely transformed—and why it wasn't just luck or timing. It was a shift in identity, self-worth, and a commitment to healing past trauma.
Your life can change faster than you ever imagined. Your story is not over.
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Books:
The Feminine Code
Detached
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00:00: From Single to Engaged: My raw timeline and personal transformation.
05:18: The Power of Mindset: The mental shifts required to attract a healthy relationship.
11:14: Healing the Past: Overcoming past trauma and breaking old relationship patterns.
14:27: The Summer of Me: Choosing a season of radical self-discovery and raising your standards.
21:21: Intentional Dating: How to spot consistency and choose the right partner without games.
27:39: Family & Reality: The fast-tracked journey to marriage and the beautiful, real shift into parenthood.
33:16: Mastering Your Circumstances: How to stop letting your current relationship status determine your self-worth.
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42min
June 26, 2026 Why Dating Feels Like a Horror Movie (And How to Survive It) Feat. Rory Uphold
Dating can feel like a horror movie sometimes—and in this episode, we're embracing that idea in the best way possible.
I'm joined by Rory Uphold, author of A Final Girl's Guide to the Horrors of Dating, for a conversation about heartbreak, healing, confidence, and what it really means to become the "final girl" in your own life. We explore how the horror movie archetype mirrors so many of the challenges women face in dating, from surviving toxic relationships to rebuilding trust in yourself after your heart has been broken.
We also dive into the ways rom-coms, social media, and cultural expectations shape our beliefs about love, why so many women struggle to trust their intuition, and how to break free from the patterns that keep attracting the wrong people. I share practical strategies for reprogramming limiting beliefs, strengthening your self-worth, setting healthy boundaries, and creating relationships rooted in self-respect instead of fear.
If you've ever struggled with heartbreak, anxious attachment, dating burnout, or wondering why you keep ending up in the same unhealthy relationship dynamics, this episode is for you.
In this episode, we discuss:
- The "Final Girl" mindset and how it applies to dating and relationships
- How to heal after heartbreak and emotional trauma
- Why we romanticize unhealthy relationships
- The hidden influence of rom-coms and media on our expectations of love
- How to rewire limiting beliefs and build lasting confidence
- Learning to trust your intuition and set boundaries without guilt
- What it really means to become the woman who chooses instead of chases
If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs the reminder that healing is possible—and that the best love story starts with the relationship you have with yourself.
Book: A Final Girl's Guide to teh Horrors of Dating - https://amzn.to/4eKH6c0
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June 18, 2026 He Told Me He Could Never Love Someone Like Me
In today's episode, I'm celebrating the release of my new book, The Feminine Code: The Unspoken Laws of Power, Magnetism, and Self-Respect, and sharing the personal story that inspired it.
I take you back to the relationship that broke me. The one that left me questioning my worth, doubting my reality, and completely disconnected from myself. It was also the relationship that became the foundation for everything I've spent the last two decades teaching women about love, self-worth, and healing.
In this episode, I talk about why so many women confuse anxiety with chemistry, how toxic relationships scramble your perception of love, and the subconscious beliefs that keep us chasing validation, abandoning ourselves, and settling for less than we deserve.
I also share what I call the Feminine Code — a new way of living rooted in self-respect, discernment, emotional regulation, and self-worth. We get into the dark feminine, why it's been so misunderstood, and how boundaries, standards, and self-trust are some of the most powerful tools a woman can develop.
If you've ever struggled to let go, questioned your worth, repeated unhealthy patterns, or wondered why healthy love sometimes feels boring at first — this one is for you.
In this episode I cover:
- Why so many women mistake anxiety for chemistry
- How toxic relationships distort your perception of love
- The subconscious beliefs that drive people-pleasing and self-abandonment
- What the dark feminine really means
- Why boundaries are an act of self-respect
- How to rebuild self-worth after heartbreak
- The difference between healing and becoming someone new
- How to become magnetic without playing games
Thank you for being here and helping make this launch possible. I cannot wait for you to read the book.
Get it here: The Feminine Code - https://amzn.to/3SfLYhF
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34min
June 11, 2026 The Dark Psychology Behind Dating Apps
If you've ever felt exhausted, discouraged, or strangely addicted to dating apps, you're not imagining it.
In this episode, I take a deep dive into the psychology of dating apps and explain why so many people walk away feeling rejected, anxious, and emotionally drained. The problem isn't necessarily you—it's the environment you're operating in.
I explore how dating apps gamify the search for love, turning dating into an experience driven by dopamine hits, intermittent reinforcement, and endless swiping. We talk about the subtle but powerful impact of "micro rejections"—the unanswered messages, ghosting, and matches that go nowhere—and how they can slowly chip away at your self-esteem without you even realizing it.
I also discuss how dating apps have transformed modern dating into a marketplace where people are encouraged to brand, market, and compare themselves rather than form authentic connections. When dating starts to feel like a competition, it's easy to lose sight of your worth and start seeking validation from outcomes that were never designed to define you in the first place.
Most importantly, I share practical ways to navigate dating apps without losing yourself in the process, so you can date from a place of confidence, self-respect, and emotional stability.
In this episode, I discuss:
-The psychology behind dating apps and how they're designed to keep us engaged
- Why swiping creates a dopamine-driven feedback loop
- The hidden emotional impact of micro rejections
- How dating apps encourage a marketplace mentality
- Why modern dating often feels more discouraging than ever
- The connection between validation-seeking and unhealthy dating patterns
- What many people get wrong about attraction and "dark feminine energy"
- How to detach from outcomes and preserve your self-worth
- Practical strategies for dating with confidence and intention
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24min
June 04, 2026 What Everyone Gets Wrong About Happiness, Purpose, and Love With Rabbi Manis Friedman
In this fascinating conversation, I sit down with Rabbi Manis Friedman, one of the world's most respected spiritual teachers, to discuss the deeper questions many of us struggle with: What gives life meaning? Why do so many people feel unfulfilled despite having everything they thought they wanted? And what does it take to build a truly lasting relationship?
We explore the difference between happiness and fulfillment, the role of purpose in creating a meaningful life, and why modern dating culture may be leading people further away from the connection they seek. Rabbi Friedman shares timeless wisdom on love, marriage, commitment, and the spiritual principles that create strong relationships and a fulfilling life.
Whether you're looking for love, navigating relationships, searching for greater purpose, or simply trying to understand what really matters, this conversation offers a refreshing perspective that challenges many of today's most common beliefs.
In this episode, we discuss:
• What gives life meaning and purpose
• The difference between happiness and fulfillment
• Why so many people feel disconnected and unfulfilled
• What modern dating gets wrong about love and relationships
• The spiritual purpose of marriage and commitment
• How to build deeper, more meaningful connections
• The role of responsibility, service, and contribution in a fulfilling life
• Timeless wisdom for creating stronger relationships and a better life
This is one of those conversations that has the power to change the way you think about love, purpose, happiness, and what it truly means to live a meaningful life.
Rabbi Friedman's website- https://itsgoodtoknow.org/
Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/rabbimanisfriedman/
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48min
May 21, 2026 The Father Wound: How It Shapes Your Relationships & Self-Worth
In this episode of You Will Be OK, I’m talking about the father wound — the invisible emotional imprint left by an absent, emotionally unavailable, critical, inconsistent, or unsafe father figure, and how it shapes nearly every area of our lives long after childhood.
I break down the different forms the father wound can take, how it impacts self-worth and attachment, and why so many people unknowingly recreate these dynamics in their adult relationships.
In this episode, I cover:
- The different types of father absence and how they affect us
- How father wounds show up differently in women and men
- Why women with father wounds often become drawn to emotionally unavailable partners
- How father wounds in men can lead to emotional shutdown, anger, validation-seeking, avoidance, and fear of vulnerability
- The difference between mother wounds and father wounds
- How these wounds shape our nervous systems, self-esteem, and relationship patterns
- What healing actually looks like
- Why becoming your own bridge is one of the most powerful things you can do
I also talk about the deeper grief underneath the father wound — grieving the protection, safety, validation, and emotional security you may not have received — and how to stop unconsciously seeking it through romantic relationships.
If you’ve ever struggled with abandonment, people-pleasing, fear of rejection, emotionally unavailable partners, or feeling like you’re never fully enough, this episode will help you understand why.
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#fatherwound #relationships #self-worth #attachment #healing #emotionallyunavailable

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29min
May 15, 2026 The Mother Wound Explained: Self-Worth, Love & Healing
Do you constantly seek validation or feel like you’re never enough no matter how much self-work you do?
In this episode of You Will Be OK, I’m diving deep into the mother wound — the hidden root behind perfectionism, anxious attachment, people-pleasing, emotional dependency, and chronic self-criticism.
I talk about how emotionally unavailable, critical, controlling, neglectful, or inconsistent parenting can shape the way we see ourselves and relationships long into adulthood. I also explore how childhood trauma and emotional wounds impact self-worth, emotional regulation, trust, dating patterns, and the voice inside your head that tells you you’re not good enough.
We also get into the different ways the mother wound can show up in women versus men, why so many people stay stuck in toxic relationship cycles despite years of self-work, and what healing actually looks like.
In this episode, I discuss:
- What the mother wound actually is
- How childhood emotional wounds shape adult relationships
- The connection between the mother wound and anxious attachment
- Why your inner critic sounds the way it does
- Healing people-pleasing, perfectionism, and emotional dependency
- Emotional regulation and nervous system healing
- Inner child healing and rebuilding self-trust
- Why you keep seeking validation in relationships
- How to stop looking for someone else to finally make you feel worthy
This is a deep, emotional, and incredibly important conversation for anyone struggling with self-worth, attachment issues, relationship patterns, or feeling trapped in cycles they can’t seem to break.
And if this episode resonates with you, let me know in the comments what part hit hardest.
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36min
May 07, 2026 The Truth About Discipline, Confidence & Feeling Good in Your Body (Feat. Ailin Salem)
Most people think getting healthy is about willpower, restriction, or finally becoming “disciplined enough.” But real transformation usually starts somewhere much deeper.
In this episode, I sit down with health coach and creator Ailin Salem to talk about fitness, confidence, mindset, and what it actually takes to create lasting change in your life without obsessing, burning out, or hating yourself in the process.
We talk about Ailin's journey from working in PR to building a career in fitness and wellness, the pressure women feel around their bodies, and why self-love and discipline are not opposites — they actually need each other.
We also get into:
- Why motivation is unreliable
- The habits that actually create long-term change
- Building confidence through consistency
- Stress, overwhelm, and managing chaos
- How to stop the all-or-nothing mindset
- Body image, self-worth, and sustainable health
- Practical routines that make life feel more manageable
This episode is honest, motivating, and full of practical mindset shifts that can genuinely change the way you approach your health and your life.
Follow Ailin- @ailinsalem https://www.instagram.com/ailinsalem
Buy my book: Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible https://amzn.to/4urEsOj
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47min
May 01, 2026 The Real Reason You’re Exhausted, Overthinking, and Still Not Happy ft. Kamini Wood
If you feel exhausted all the time—even when you’re not doing that much—this episode will hit.
I sat down with Kamini Wood, a human potential coach, to talk about what’s actually behind burnout, overthinking, and feeling like you’re never doing enough.
We get into:
- Why burnout is emotional, not just physical
- How perfectionism keeps you stuck and drained
- The impact of childhood conditioning and parenting patterns
- How social media fuels comparison and low self-worth
- Why boundaries feel so hard (and how to start)
- What it really means to “reparent” yourself
- How these patterns show up in dating and relationships
If you’ve ever felt like you should be happy but something still feels off, this will explain why.
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49min
April 24, 2026 How To Love Being Single (And Why It's The Fastest Way To Stop Being Single)
Being single isn't most women's end goal, but it's a chapter you'll never get back, and how you spend it shapes everything that comes next. In this episode, I'm making the case that genuinely loving your single life isn't a consolation prize. It's actually the energy that attracts a healthy partner in the first place.
I break down the Law of Detachment from my book "Detached"— including what it actually looks like on a Tuesday when he hasn't texted back. I also tackle the elephant in the room most dating advice ignores: timeline pressure, fertility anxiety, and the friend who just posted another sonogram.
The reframe? Worrying about your timeline does not change your timeline. Action does. Freeze the eggs, make the financial plan, get healthy, go to therapy, expand your network for life (not just for dating) — and then release everything beyond that.
I also share the story behind the philosophy: my "Summer of Me," the last summer of my twenties, when I stopped chasing, started living, and ended up meeting my now-husband in the middle of it all.
If you've been treating your single season like a waiting room, this one's for you.
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