You Will Be OK

By Sabrina BendorySociety & Culture Health & Fitness Mental Health Education Self-Improvement Relationships

You Will Be OK episodes

May 01 The Real Reason You’re Exhausted, Overthinking, and Still Not Happy ft. Kamini Wood
If you feel exhausted all the time—even when you’re not doing that much—this episode will hit.
I sat down with Kamini Wood, a human potential coach, to talk about what’s actually behind burnout, overthinking, and feeling like you’re never doing enough.
We get into:
- Why burnout is emotional, not just physical
- How perfectionism keeps you stuck and drained
- The impact of childhood conditioning and parenting patterns
- How social media fuels comparison and low self-worth
- Why boundaries feel so hard (and how to start)
- What it really means to “reparent” yourself
- How these patterns show up in dating and relationships
If you’ve ever felt like you should be happy but something still feels off, this will explain why.
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49 min
April 24 How To Love Being Single (And Why It's The Fastest Way To Stop Being Single)
Being single isn't most women's end goal, but it's a chapter you'll never get back, and how you spend it shapes everything that comes next. In this episode, I'm making the case that genuinely loving your single life isn't a consolation prize. It's actually the energy that attracts a healthy partner in the first place.
I break down the Law of Detachment from my book "Detached"— including what it actually looks like on a Tuesday when he hasn't texted back. I also tackle the elephant in the room most dating advice ignores: timeline pressure, fertility anxiety, and the friend who just posted another sonogram.
The reframe? Worrying about your timeline does not change your timeline. Action does. Freeze the eggs, make the financial plan, get healthy, go to therapy, expand your network for life (not just for dating) — and then release everything beyond that.
I also share the story behind the philosophy: my "Summer of Me," the last summer of my twenties, when I stopped chasing, started living, and ended up meeting my now-husband in the middle of it all.
If you've been treating your single season like a waiting room, this one's for you.
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39 min
April 16 How to Be a Detached, High-Value Woman (10 Tips That Make You Magnetic)
If you keep getting attached too fast, overthinking everything, or chasing someone’s attention… this is the episode you need.
In this episode, I’m breaking down 10 powerful shifts to help you become a detached, high-value woman — not by playing games, but by changing your energy at the root.
Because here’s the truth:
Detachment isn’t about not caring… it’s about not needing a specific outcome to feel okay.
And that’s what makes you magnetic.
Inside, I talk about:
- How to stop chasing and start choosing
- The subtle ways desperation shows up (and repels people)
- How to build a life that naturally creates confidence + detachment
- Why being present is more attractive than being perfect
- How to receive without overgiving or proving yourself
- The mindset shift that instantly changes your dating energy
- How to protect your energy and stop emotional burnout
- And the core belief that changes everything: you are the prize
If you’ve ever felt like you’re “too much,” “not enough,” or constantly stuck in your head while dating… this will shift you.
Detachment isn’t something you fake.
It’s something you practice... until it becomes who you are.
If this episode hit for you, make sure to like, follow/subscribe and share it with a friend who needs this.
And if you want to go deeper, check out my book "Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible"- https://amzn.to/4vPVnvN
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33 min
March 26 How I Lost 50 Pounds in 8 Months (My GLP-1 Journey & What Actually Worked)
In this episode, I’m sharing my nearly 50-pound weight loss journey—what actually worked, what didn’t, and what I wish I had understood sooner.
I talk about my experience using GLP-1, how my body changed after pregnancy and breastfeeding, and the lifestyle shifts that finally made things click. But this isn’t just about weight loss—it’s about hormones, identity, mindset, and the patterns that were keeping me stuck for years.
I also open up about my relationship with my body, the pressure to “bounce back,” and how I had to let go of all-or-nothing thinking to create real, sustainable change.
If you’ve ever felt frustrated with your body or like nothing is working, this is the honest conversation I wish I had earlier.
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33 min
March 19 Why You Keep Ending Up in Situationships (And How to Finally Break the Cycle)
Why do you keep ending up in situationships — the kind of connection that almost feels like a relationship, but never fully becomes one?
In this episode, I break down exactly what situationships are, why they’re so confusing and addictive, and the deeper patterns that keep you stuck in them. Because it’s not just about “bad luck” or the wrong people — there’s a reason this keeps happening, and once you see it, everything starts to shift.
We’ll talk about:
-Why Situationships hook you
- The difference between a Situationship and Slow Burn Relationship
- Why you keep choosing emotionally unavailable or inconsistent partners
- How low self-worth and emotional patterns play into it
- The difference between real connection and false hope
- How to detach, rebuild your self-worth, and start attracting real commitment
If you’ve ever felt confused, anxious, or stuck in something that never quite turns into a relationship — this episode will help you understand why, and more importantly, how to break the cycle.
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37 min
March 12 Why We Self-Sabotage When Things Are Going Well (The Upper Limit Problem)
In this episode, we explore the psychology of self-sabotage and why we ruin things when they are finally going well.
Have you ever wondered why you feel anxiety after success or why you self-sabotage relationships just as they get serious? You aren't "broken"—you’re likely hitting your Upper Limit Problem. This is a psychological ceiling that limits how much happiness, love, and success you allow yourself to experience.
Your nervous system is wired for familiarity and safety, not necessarily for growth. When your life improves faster than your subconscious mind is ready for, it triggers a fear of success that leads to self-sabotaging behaviors like procrastination, picking fights, or losing motivation.
In this episode, I break down:
- What is the Upper Limit Problem? Defining the "happiness ceiling."
- Nervous System Regulation: Why your body reacts negatively to positive change.
- Signs of Self-Sabotage: How we subconsciously ruin love, career wins, and joy.
- Expanding Your Capacity: Practical ways to feel safe while thriving.
Recognizing this pattern is the first step to breaking the cycle of self-sabotage. The goal isn’t just achieving the life you want—it’s learning how to regulate your nervous system so you can actually enjoy it.
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21 min
March 06 Why Modern Dating Feels So Hard (And How to Do It Better) Feat. Talia Koren
Modern dating can feel confusing, exhausting, and sometimes even hopeless — but does it actually have to be that way?
In this episode, I sit down with Talia Koren from @Dating.Intentionally to talk about the reality of dating today. Talia started her podcast after realizing she was actually enjoying dating while so many people around her were miserable — and she wanted to understand why.
We talk about the idea of a “dating recession,” how the pandemic shifted relationship expectations, and why women today are prioritizing emotional intelligence and connection more than ever before. We also dive into the difference between passive dating and intentional dating, how to spot emotional availability early, and why consistency is one of the most important green flags to look for.
If dating has been feeling frustrating or discouraging, this episode will help you approach it with more clarity, self-awareness, and confidence.
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51 min
February 26 Why The Guys You Want Don't Want You
Why do the guys you really want never seem to want you back? And why do the ones who are consistent and kind sometimes feel… boring?
In this episode, Sabrina Bendory breaks down the hidden psychology behind your dating patterns and why so many women find themselves attracted to emotionally unavailable men. She shares personal stories, real client examples, and powerful psychological insights into how childhood love models, subconscious beliefs, and attachment styles shape who you’re drawn to.
You’ll learn why dopamine is the anticipation chemical — and how the thrill of the chase can trick your brain into confusing anxiety with chemistry. Sabrina explains how fantasy fills in the blanks when someone is inconsistent, why “potential” is often an illusion, and how your inner monologue may be ignoring red flags before your conscious mind catches up.
Most importantly, this episode is about reclaiming your power. You’ll learn how to:
• Recognize unhealthy attraction patterns
• Rewire subconscious beliefs through neuroplasticity
• Shift from chaos to calm in love
• Build self-worth from the inside
• Cultivate confidence that changes who you attract
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41 min
February 19 How to Date Without Desperation
In this episode of the You Will Be OK Podcast, I talk about how to date without desperation — and why self-worth is the real key to attracting healthy love.
I break down the difference between wanting a relationship and needing one, how comparison and envy sabotage your confidence, and why high standards should be rooted in values — not fear or avoidance. We also talk about pacing in early dating, emotional safety, ghosting, disappointment, and how to stop overinvesting too quickly.
If you struggle with anxious attachment, overthinking, or feeling behind in your love life, this episode will help you shift from chasing validation to building a life that feels full — so love becomes an addition, not a rescue.
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31 min
February 05 Why Love Isn't Enough In Relationships With Casey Caston
In this episode, I sit down with relationship coach Casey Caston to break down what actually makes relationships work — and why love alone is rarely enough.
We talk about the biggest misconceptions around dating and long-term relationships, why trust (not chemistry) is the real foundation, and how personal growth, accountability, and repair determine whether a relationship thrives or falls apart. Casey also shares insights from his own relationship journey and the tools he teaches clients to build healthier, more secure connections.
Key takeaways:
-If you want a better relationship, you have to become a better you
-Conflict is healthy and necessary when done well
-Trust matters more than love
-Unsolicited apologies change everything
-Most relationships can be repaired with intention and effort
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1 hr 4 min

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Join dating and self-worth coach Sabrina Bendory as she dives deep into the journey of personal transformation and finding healthy, lasting love. This podcast is your guide to building self-worth,…