Do you carry everyone else's emotions like they're your personal responsibility? What if that crushing weight isn't your personality, but your nervous system still running on childhood survival biology?

When you feel like everything depends on you - fixing problems, managing emotions, preventing disasters - your body is operating from what I call protection mode. This isn't about being caring or responsible. It's complex PTSD showing up as hyperresponsibility, and there's specific biology behind why your nervous system won't trust others to handle anything.

Think of protection mode like living with an internal security system that never turns off. Your shoulders stay braced, your nervous system scans for problems to solve, and you exhaust yourself trying to control outcomes that aren't actually yours to manage. Meanwhile, everyone else seems to relax while you carry the mental load.

In this Biology Behind It mini episode, I break down the highlights from Episode 136, explaining why adults who experienced childhood chaos still live with their hearts protected and an exhausting need to manage everyone else's stability.

You'll hear more on:

• Why neuroception (your body's background safety calculator) still reads danger signals everywhere
• How protection mode creates the physiology of chronic responsibility and hypervigilance
• The hidden costs of living protected: sleep issues, chronic fatigue, muscle tension, and autoimmune problems
• Why you can't be in protection mode AND connection mode simultaneously - they're opposite physiological states
• How childhood experiences of "I never want to feel that way again" create lasting protection patterns
• The difference between telling yourself you're safe versus creating actual inner safety
• Why waiting for someone else to make you feel secure keeps you stuck in survival biology
• Practical somatic approaches to shift from protection mode to authentic safety

Whether you're the person everyone calls when things fall apart or you're supporting someone whose strength might actually be stored trauma, this episode reveals why your nervous system refuses to let others take responsibility. I give you the roadmap back to trusting life enough to finally let your guard down.

🎧 Want the full deep-dive? Listen to Episode 136: "Why You Always Feel Responsible for Everything: Hidden Signs of Complex PTSD from Childhood" for the complete framework on recognizing protection patterns and creating the inner safety your body needs to finally relax.