Heal The Hurt

Why You Chase Love (and They Pull Away)


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🔥 It’s your childhood emotional blueprint replaying itself.


In this video, I explain why chasing love doesn’t start in adulthood—and why boundaries, willpower, and “just stop texting” advice don’t work when your nervous system is hijacked.


You’ll learn:

âś“ Why emotionally unavailable people feel magnetic

âś“ How inconsistent or conditional love wires your nervous system

âś“ What trauma bonding actually is

✓ How the Worst Day Cycle™ keeps repeating

âś“ Why chasing is a survival persona, not a flaw

✓ And how to begin healing this pattern using Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle™


If you grew up feeling unseen, unchosen, or loved only when you performed, then of course your body panics when love feels like it’s disappearing.


This video breaks down—at the nervous-system level—why distance feels intoxicating, stability feels boring, and how to finally stop chasing love by healing the original wound.


You deserve to be chosen—by others and by yourself.


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Are you repeating the same relationship patterns — chasing, shutting down, feeling unseen, or choosing emotionally unavailable partners? It’s not your fault. It’s your childhood emotional blueprint.


In this video, we go deep into:

âś“ why your nervous system reacts the way it does

✓ how the Worst Day Cycle™ drives your relationships

âś“ why conflict feels dangerous

âś“ why you chase or shut down

âś“ how trauma chemistry shapes attraction

âś“ and how to finally break the pattern wIth Emotional Authenticity and the Authentic Self Cycle


Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or quietly exhausted by the war inside your own heart, mind, and body, I help you map and heal the childhood emotional blueprint that’s been training your Survival Persona. So your relationships—and your relationship with yourself—can finally feel emotionally safe, and you can live from your authentic self instead of old programming.


If you’re a high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adult who’s tried therapy, communication tools, or emotional intelligence — but nothing has created lasting change — you’re in the right place.


This channel teaches root-cause emotional healing, using:

🔥 The Emotional Authenticity Method™

🔥 The Worst Day Cycle™

🔥 The Authentic Self Cycle™

🔥 The Relationship Repair & Reconnection Method™


It’s time to break the cycle, heal the blueprint, and build the emotionally safe, connected relationship you deserve.


You’re not broken — you’re patterned.

And patterns can be rewired.


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