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What do you do when you still love your partner, share a life, a home, kids, routines… but deep down you do not feel desired anymore?
In this episode, Kate and Eric get honest about a conversation we had at our own kitchen table. I told her I wanted to feel more desired. She shared how unworthy and "too much" she sometimes feels. We realized we were both carrying quiet stories that slowly kill desire.
We talk about the very real gap between being needed and being wanted.
Between being the "safe, useful partner" and being the one your spouse actually chooses, notices, and craves time with.
If you have ever thought:
"My partner appreciates me, but I do not feel wanted"
"We live together, but we feel more like teammates than lovers"
"I do not even know how to ask for what I want without feeling needy"
We share simple, real ways to:
Own the stories that block you from feeling desirable
Start asking for what you actually need
Bring back playful, present energy without forcing big romantic performances
You will leave with questions you can bring straight into your own marriage tonight, so you can start feeling more chosen, more seen, and more deeply desired right where you are.
💥 Get My Free Guide: Reignite Your Marriage Blueprint
https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/go
🎙 Listen & Subscribe: Evolved Marriage Podcast on YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/@evolved_marriage
By Kate & Eric MacDougall4.9
2424 ratings
What do you do when you still love your partner, share a life, a home, kids, routines… but deep down you do not feel desired anymore?
In this episode, Kate and Eric get honest about a conversation we had at our own kitchen table. I told her I wanted to feel more desired. She shared how unworthy and "too much" she sometimes feels. We realized we were both carrying quiet stories that slowly kill desire.
We talk about the very real gap between being needed and being wanted.
Between being the "safe, useful partner" and being the one your spouse actually chooses, notices, and craves time with.
If you have ever thought:
"My partner appreciates me, but I do not feel wanted"
"We live together, but we feel more like teammates than lovers"
"I do not even know how to ask for what I want without feeling needy"
We share simple, real ways to:
Own the stories that block you from feeling desirable
Start asking for what you actually need
Bring back playful, present energy without forcing big romantic performances
You will leave with questions you can bring straight into your own marriage tonight, so you can start feeling more chosen, more seen, and more deeply desired right where you are.
💥 Get My Free Guide: Reignite Your Marriage Blueprint
https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/go
🎙 Listen & Subscribe: Evolved Marriage Podcast on YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/@evolved_marriage

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