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What if your self-doubt wasn’t a flaw—but a clue?
In this powerful episode, behavioral strategist and award-winning leadership expert Shadé Zahrai shares the 3 psychological traps that sabotage success—and how to break free.
This conversation blends research, real talk, and practical tools to help you stop overthinking and start moving forward—confidently.
Click >>PLAY<< to hear all of this and:
[00:02] Shade shares how success, fulfillment, and growth are often blocked not by skill—but by psychology.
[03:45] Discover the three common patterns that hold high performers back: Failure to Launch, Treading Water, and Destination Obsession.
[07:10] Unpacking the cycle of achievement addiction—why reaching goals doesn't always bring satisfaction, and what to do instead.
[10:30] Learn the transformative habit that helps reclaim presence, celebrate progress, and stop chasing the next goal without rest.
[18:45] Why waiting to "feel ready" is a trap—and how to take meaningful action even when self-doubt is loud.
[24:20] Shade explains how to stop tying self-worth to productivity or accolades—and how that shift unlocks long-term success.
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Connect With Shadé Zahrai:
For full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode611
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→ Get Shade’s Book https://www.shadezahrai.com/bigtrust ←
↓
What if your self-doubt wasn’t a flaw—but a clue?
In this powerful episode, behavioral strategist and award-winning leadership expert Shadé Zahrai shares the 3 psychological traps that sabotage success—and how to break free.
This conversation blends research, real talk, and practical tools to help you stop overthinking and start moving forward—confidently.
Click >>PLAY<< to hear all of this and:
[00:02] Shade shares how success, fulfillment, and growth are often blocked not by skill—but by psychology.
[03:45] Discover the three common patterns that hold high performers back: Failure to Launch, Treading Water, and Destination Obsession.
[07:10] Unpacking the cycle of achievement addiction—why reaching goals doesn't always bring satisfaction, and what to do instead.
[10:30] Learn the transformative habit that helps reclaim presence, celebrate progress, and stop chasing the next goal without rest.
[18:45] Why waiting to "feel ready" is a trap—and how to take meaningful action even when self-doubt is loud.
[24:20] Shade explains how to stop tying self-worth to productivity or accolades—and how that shift unlocks long-term success.
Listen to Related Episodes:
Connect With Shadé Zahrai:
For full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode611
You know that feeling when you find a platform that just works—and you never have to worry about switching? That’s been me and Showit for the past 10+ years.
I built my website with Showit because it gives me total design freedom.
If you’re ready to build a website that works FOR you—and not against you—head to JasmineStar.com/showit for a 14-day free trial + first month free when you subscribe!

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