Today's episode started with me recommending Renfei my new e-bike! Then we talked about all the movies we want to watch - in Chinese, we call it "Planting grass"; and when someone recommends you something strongly, we call it "An Li (Amway)". Funny words!

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电动自行车 | diàndòng zìxíngchē | electric bicycle
脚踏板 | jiǎotà bǎn | foot pedal
上坡 | shàngpō | uphill; going uphill
省力 | shěnglì | save labor; less effort
电瓶车 | diànpíngchē | electric scooter (moped-style)
踏板车 | tàbǎnchē | scooter (kick scooter or motorized)
安全隐患 | ānquán yǐnhuàn | hidden safety perils/hazards
骨折 | gǔzhé | bone fracture
平衡 | pínghéng | balance
员工折扣 | yuángōng zhékòu | employee discount
租赁费 | zūlìnfèi | rental/leasing fee
税前工资 | shuìqián gōngzī | pre-tax salary
抵税 | dǐshuì | tax offset; tax deduction
合算 | hésuàn | worthwhile; a good deal
短途 | duǎntú | short distance
绕路 | ràolù | detour; go the long way around
停车位 | tíngchēwèi | parking space
排队 | páiduì | to line up; queue
关卡 | guānqiǎ | checkpoint
交通拥挤税 | jiāotōng yōngjǐ shuì | congestion charge/tax
可观 | kěguān | considerable; sizable
覆盖 | fùgài | to cover
复活节 | fùhuójié | Easter
插座 | chāzuò | electrical outlet/socket
思路打开 | sīlù dǎkāi | expand one's thinking; a new perspective
基础设施 | jīchǔ shèshī | infrastructure
修缮 | xiūshàn | to repair; to renovate (roads/buildings)
路况 | lùkuàng | road conditions
安利 | ānlì | to recommend a product/thing (from Amway)
保健品 | bǎojiànpǐn | health supplements
金字塔营销 | jīnzìtǎ yíngxiāo | pyramid scheme/marketing
种草 | zhòngcǎo | to pique someone's interest (in a product); to add to wishlist
拔草 | bácǎo | to finally buy something or fulfill a wish (removing it from the wishlist)
生动 | shēngdòng | vivid; lively
大片 | dàpiàn | blockbuster movie
宣传片 | xuānchuánpiàn | promotional film; trailer
剧透 | jùtòu | spoiler (of a movie/book)
科幻片 | kēhuànpiàn | sci-fi movie
耳熟能详 | ěrshú néngxiáng | well-known; talked about frequently
挽救 | wǎnjiù | to save; to rescue
拜读 | bàidú | to read (honorific/polite way to say reading someone's work)
心心念念 | xīnxīn niànniàn | to long for; to have something on one's mind constantly
台球 | táiqiú | billiards; pool
套路 | tàolù | routine; trick; "the way it works"
口口相传 | kǒukǒu xiāngchuán | word of mouth
松饼 | sōngbǐng | pancake/muffin
落伍 | luòwǔ | outdated; behind the times
上瘾 | shàngyǐn | addictive; to become addicted
反感 | fǎngǎn | to be disgusted with; to dislike
讽刺 | fěngcì | ironic; sarcastic

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How fast do you reply to messages on average? I definitely hate it when people read my messages and choose to reply to my messages only after a few days... We are so different! Today let's talk about that!

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关联 | guānlián | related; connected; association
频率 | pínlǜ | frequency
错过 | cuòguò | to miss (an opportunity, a message, etc.)
因人而异 | yīnrén éryì | to vary from person to person
场景 | chǎngjǐng | scenario; setting; scene
沉浸式 | chénjìnshì | immersive
频繁 | pínfán | frequent; frequently
弹出来 | tán chūlái | to pop up (like a notification)
取决于 | qǔjué yú | to depend on; to be determined by
重要程度 | zhòngyào chéngdù | degree of importance
手头 | shǒutóu | at hand; currently doing something
未读 | wèidú | unread
窗口 | chuāngkǒu | window (e.g., chat window)
左滑 | zuǒhuá | to swipe left
条理性 | tiáolǐxìng | methodicalness; sense of order; organization
分类 | fēnlèi | to classify; classification
拖延 | tuōyán | to procrastinate; to delay
震动 | zhèndòng | vibration; to vibrate
铃声 | língshēng | ringtone
锁屏 | suǒpíng | lock screen
延迟 | yánchí | to delay; deferred; delayed
期待值 | qīdàizhí | expectation level
极端 | jíduān | extreme
答复 | dáfù | a reply; a formal answer
待办事项 | dàibàn shìxiàng | to-do list; items to be handled
多线程 | duōxiànchéng | multi-threading; multi-tasking
切换 | qiēhuàn | to switch (between tasks or modes)
代价 | dàijià | cost; price (often metaphorical)
效率 | xiàolǜ | efficiency
全神贯注 | quánshén guànzhù | to concentrate one's whole attention on; absorbed
周遭 | zhōuzāo | surroundings; vicinity
寒暄 | hánxuān | to exchange conventional greetings; small talk
近况 | jìnkuàng | recent developments; current situation
时差 | shíchā | time lag; jet lag; time difference
截图 | jiétú | screenshot
难得 | nándé | rare; precious; hard to come by
记在小本本里 | jì zài xiǎoběnběn lǐ | (idiomatic) to keep a grudge; to keep a "little black book" of slights
蕴含 | yùnhán | to contain; to imply; to embody
默契 | mòqì | tacit understanding; unvoiced agreement
贺卡 | hèkǎ | greeting card
原本 | yuánběn | originally; original
执行力 | zhíxínglì | ability to execute; executive power
浑身不自在 | húnshēn bù zìzài | to feel uncomfortable all over; ill at ease
困扰 | kùnrǎo | trouble; distress; to puzzle
摩擦 | mócā | friction; conflict (between people)
在乎 | zàihu | to care about; to mind
长辈 | zhǎngbèi | elder generation; seniors
语音消息 | yǔyīn xiāoxi | voice message
转化 | zhuǎnhuà | to transform; to convert

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Are you a 社畜 corporate slave, or more literally "company livestock"? Today we talked about burn-out, a seemingly more and more common thing around us. How can you notice symptoms or signs of burning out?

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牛马 | niúmǎ | ox and horse (metaphor for hardworking employees/drudgery)
打工人 | dǎgōngrén | worker; laborer (often used self-deprecatingly)
职业倦怠 | zhíyè juàndài | professional burnout
油尽灯枯 | yóujìn dēngkū | the oil is exhausted and the lamp is dry (complete exhaustion)
榨干 | zhàgān | to squeeze dry; to drain (someone) of everything
贴切 | tiēqiè | apt; appropriate; fitting
比喻 | bǐyù | metaphor; analogy
疲倦 | píjuàn | tired; weary; fatigued
懈怠 | xièdài | slack; negligent; lethargic
松懈 | sōngxiè | to relax (one's efforts); to go slack
不理睬 | bù lǐcǎi | to ignore; to pay no attention to
麻木 | mámù | numb; insensitive; apathetic
使不上劲 | shǐ bú shàng jìn | to be unable to exert strength; feeling powerless
赛道 | sàidào | track (often used to mean career path or industry sector)
错觉 | cuòjué | illusion; false impression
障碍 | zhàng'ài | obstacle; barrier; disorder
肿瘤 | zhǒngliú | tumor
确诊 | quèzhěn | to make a definite diagnosis
爆发性 | bàofāxìng | explosive; bursting
沮丧 | jǔsàng | depressed; dispirited; frustrated
消退 | xiāotuì | to subside; to ebb away
闷闷不乐 | mènmèn bú lè | moody; depressed; melancholic
意识到 | yìshí dào | to realize; to become aware of
脚步沉重 | jiǎobù chénzhòng | heavy footsteps
无法抑制 | wúfǎ yìzhì | uncontrollable; unable to restrain
爆哭 | bàokū | to burst into tears; to cry uncontrollably
挫折 | cuòzhé | setback; frustration
生理上 | shēnglǐ shàng | physiologically
访谈 | fǎngtán | interview; talk (often professional)
一生要强 | yìshēng yàoqiáng | competitive/striving for excellence all one's life
断断续续 | duànduàn xùxù | off and on; intermittently
疗愈 | liáoyù | healing
假想 | jiǎxiǎng | imaginary; hypothetical; to imagine
督促 | dūcù | to urge; to supervise and urge
懒散 | lǎnsǎn | lazy; indolent; sluggish
脑雾 | nǎowù | brain fog
不承认 | bù chéngrèn | to refuse to admit; to deny
抚平 | fǔpíng | to smooth out; to soothe (emotions/problems)
荨麻疹 | qiánmázhěn | hives; urticaria
耳鸣 | ěrmíng | tinnitus; ringing in the ears
身心俱疲 | shēnxīn jù pí | exhausted in both mind and body
诱因 | yòuyīn | incentive; cause; trigger
投射 | tóushè | to project (feelings onto someone/something)
脆弱 | cuìruò | fragile; vulnerable
主观能动性 | zhǔguān néngdòngxìng | subjective initiative
讨好型人格 | tǎohǎo xíng réngé | people-pleasing personality
严于律己 | yán yú lǜ jǐ | to be strict with oneself
能者多劳 | néngzhě duōláo | the able should do more work
卯足了劲 | mǎo zú le jìn | to exert one's utmost effort; to put in all one's strength
劳逸结合 | láoyì jiéhé | to strike a balance between work and rest

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Social media! Yes, we all hate it but love it. I chatted with Jane about our experience during the Christmas and new year vacation, and how we tried to "detox" from screentime....

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瞎扯 | xiāchě | to talk nonsense; to chat aimlessly
身心放松 | shēnxīn fàngsōng | physical and mental relaxation
佛系 | fóxì | Buddhist-style; casual; indifferent; go with the flow
界限 | jièxiàn | boundary; line; limit
模糊 | móhú | vague; blurry; fuzzy
充斥 | chōngchì | to be full of; to be flooded with (often used negatively)
气氛 | qìfēn | atmosphere; ambiance
暖房派对 | nuǎnfáng pàiduì | housewarming party
素描 | sùmiáo | sketching; pencil drawing
水彩 | shuǐcǎi | watercolor
帆布 | fānbù | canvas
休养生息 | xiūyǎng shēngxī | to recuperate; to recover and multiply
养精蓄锐 | yǎngjīng xùruì | to preserve energy and build up strength
秋收冬藏 | qiūshōu dōngcáng | harvest in autumn and store in winter
成语 | chéngyǔ | idiom; set phrase
谷物 | gǔwù | cereal; grain
生理规律 | shēnglǐ guīlǜ | physiological laws; biological rhythm
精力充沛 | jīnglì chōngpèi | energetic; full of vitality
亢奋 | kàngfèn | excited; stimulated; hyper
区块链 | qūkuàiliàn | blockchain
去中心化 | qùzhōngxīnhuà | decentralization
金融 | jīnróng | finance
硬核 | yìnghé | hardcore
干货 | gānhuò | "dry goods"; solid, practical information or content
入门级 | rùmén jí | entry-level
论文 | lùnwén | thesis; paper; dissertation
科普 | kēpǔ | popular science
讽刺 | fěngcì | satire; irony; sarcasm
霸道总裁 | bàdào zǒngcái | overbearing CEO (a common trope in romance web novels)
桥段 | qiáoduàn | plot device; trope; segment (in movies/TV)
流行病学 | liúxíngbìng xué | epidemiology
烧脑 | shāonǎo | brain-burning; mentally taxing
固有印象 | gùyǒu yìnxiàng | stereotype; fixed impression
白噪音 | báizàoyīn | white noise
碎碎念 | suìsuìniàn | to nag; to mumble; repetitive chattering
群居动物 | qúnjū dòngwù | social animals; gregarious animals
罕见 | hǎnjiàn | rare; seldom seen
冥想 | míngxiǎng | meditation
意念 | yìniàn | thought; idea; intention
车水马龙 | chēshuǐ mǎlóng | heavy traffic; bustling with vehicles
顺其自然 | shùnqí zìrán | let nature take its course
心流 | xīnliú | flow (psychological state)
自律 | zìlǜ | self-discipline
源头 | yuántóu | source; origin
萌芽 | méngyá | sprout; bud; embryonic stage
阻力 | zǔlì | resistance; obstruction
市场营销 | shìchǎng yíngxiāo | marketing
宜家效应 | yíjiā xiàoyìng | The IKEA Effect
丝滑 | sīhuá | silky smooth
点题 | diǎntí | to bring out the main theme; to hit the mark

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Have you had any interesting job interview stories, be it funny, crazy or upsetting? Today I shared some of these experiences with Renfei in this episode... and also, happy Chinese New Year!!

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节气 | jiéqì | solar terms
标志 | biāozhì | to symbolize; to mark; sign; mark
季节变换 | jìjié biànhuàn | seasonal changes
农历 | nónglì | lunar calendar (traditional Chinese calendar)
农业 | nóngyè | agriculture
耕种 | gēngzhòng | to till; to farm; to cultivate
参考 | cānkǎo | to refer to; reference
依据 | yījù | basis; according to
播种 | bōzhòng | to sow seeds; to plant
预示 | yùshì | to foreshadow; to betoken; to predict
产物 | chǎnwù | product; outcome; result
进口 | jìnkǒu | to import
农作物 | nóngzuòwù | crops
出口 | chūkǒu | to export
有机 | yǒujī | organic
农药 | nóngyào | pesticide
咨询公司 | zīxún gōngsī | consulting firm
奇葩 | qípā | weird; eccentric; (slang) strange but funny
谷物麦片 | gǔwù màipiàn | cereal
出其不意 | chūqí bùyì | to take someone by surprise
倾向 | qīngxiàng | tendency; inclination; to prefer
考察 | kǎochá | to inspect; to observe and study; to test
特质 | tèzhì | characteristic; trait
剖析 | pōuxī | to analyze; to dissect
框架 | kuàngjià | framework
恐龙 | kǒnglóng | dinosaur
驯养 | xùnyǎng | to domesticate; to tame
操纵 | cāozòng | to manipulate; to operate; to control
有条理 | yǒu tiáolǐ | organized; methodical
创新 | chuàngxīn | innovation; to innovate
不慌不忙 | bùhuāng bùmáng | leisurely; unhurried; calm
可持续发展 | kěchíxù fāzhǎn | sustainable development
职场路径 | zhíchǎng lùjìng | career path
瘫痪 | tānhuàn | paralysis; (metaphor) to come to a standstill
罢工 | bàgōng | strike; walkout
高跟鞋 | gāogēnxié | high-heeled shoes
忐忑 | tǎntè | nervous; uneasy; fidgety
狂奔 | kuángbēn | to run like mad; to dash
气喘吁吁 | qìchuǎn xūxū | out of breath; gasping
远程连线 | yuǎnchéng liánxiàn | remote connection
自言自语 | zìyán zìyǔ | to talk to oneself
说辞 | shuōcí | excuse; (one's) version of a story; statement
崩溃 | bēngkuì | to collapse; to crumble; to break down
窃听 | qiètīng | to eavesdrop; to bug; to tap
嫌疑 | xiányí | suspicion
技术故障 | jìshù gùzhàng | technical glitch/fault
社死 | shèsǐ | (slang) social death; extreme embarrassment
境地 | jìngdì | circumstances; situation; plight
基数 | jīshù | base number; cardinal number
程序化 | chéngxù huà | procedural; stylized; routine
标准化 | biāozhǔn huà | standardization
意向 | yìxiàng | intention; purpose
点到为止 | diǎn dào wéi zhǐ | to touch on something and stop; not to go too far
单方面 | dān fāngmiàn | unilateral; one-sided
表露 | biǎolù | to reveal; to show; to express (emotions)
人力资源 | rénlì zīyuán | human resources (HR)
冲突性 | chōngtū xìng | conflictual; confrontational
加班 | jiābān | to work overtime
反问 | fǎnwèn | to ask a question in reply; rhetorical question
生活平衡 | shēnghuó pínghéng | life balance
成就感 | chéngjiù gǎn | sense of achievement
职责 | zhízé | responsibility; duty
频率 | pínlǜ | frequency
心态 | xīntài | mentality; state of mind; attitude
疲惫 | píbèi | exhausted; worn out
切入 | qiērù | to cut into; to approach (a problem)
裁员 | cáiyuán | to lay off employees; downsizing
投简历 | tóu jiǎnlì | to submit a resume
转化率 | zhuǎnhuà lǜ | conversion rate
一马平川 | yīmǎ píngchuān | a wide flat expanse; (idiom) smooth sailing
马到成功 | mǎ dào chénggōng | to win instant success
天马行空 | tiānmǎ xíngkōng | unconstrained; bold and imaginative

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I chatted with Renfei today about "body anxiety" - from our own experience and our friends experience. I never liked my teeth, for example!


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行程 | xíngchéng | itinerary; schedule; route
混乱 | hùnluàn | chaotic; in a mess; confused
打赏 | dǎshǎng | to give a tip; to reward with money
容貌焦虑 | róngmào jiāolǜ | appearance anxiety; looks-based anxiety
身材焦虑 | shēncái jiāolǜ | body image anxiety
线条 | xiàntiáo | lines (referring to muscle definition/contour)
审美 | shěnměi | aesthetic; appreciation of beauty
趋同 | qūtóng | to converge; becoming similar
健美 | jiànměi | fit and beautiful; bodybuilding
传统社会 | chuántǒng shèhuì | traditional society
块头 | kuàitóu | build; size (of a person’s body)
残忍 | cánrěn | cruel; brutal
生长激素 | shēngzhǎng jīsù | growth hormone
传递 | chuándì | to pass on; to transmit; to transfer
不健全 | bù jiánquán | incomplete; flawed; defective
缺陷 | quēxiàn | defect; flaw; shortcoming
沉迷 | chénmí | to be addicted to; to be obsessed with
人均 | rénjūn | per capita; average per person
表现 | biǎoxiàn | performance; manifestation
弱小 | ruòxiǎo | small and weak
杠铃 | gànglíng | barbell
自卑 | zìbēi | low self-esteem; feeling inferior
界定 | jièdìng | to define; to demarcate (a limit)
激励 | jīlì | to encourage; to motivate; incentive
内耗 | nèihào | internal friction; mental drain; self-exhaustion
负面情绪 | fùmiàn qíngxù | negative emotions
心理压力 | xīnlǐ yālì | psychological pressure
个人形象 | gèrén xíngxiàng | personal image
潜移默化 | qiányí mòhuà | imperceptibly influence; subtle influence
优势 | yōushì | advantage; edge; superiority
平心而论 | píngxīn érlùn | in all fairness; to be honest
存在感 | cúnzàigǎn | sense of presence
不可避免 | bùkě bìmiǎn | unavoidable; inevitable
催吐 | cuītù | self-induced vomiting; to purge
饮食失调 | yǐnshí shītiáo | eating disorder
暴饮暴食 | bàoyǐn bàoshí | binge eating; overeating
医美 | yīměi | medical cosmetology; cosmetic surgery
极端 | jíduān | extreme; radical
单眼皮 | dānyǎnpí | single eyelid
双眼皮 | shuāngyǎnpí | double eyelid
遗传 | yíchuán | heredity; to inherit (genetically)
感触 | gǎnchù | thoughts and feelings; emotional resonance
打趣 | dǎqù | to make fun of; to tease
心头大患 | xīntóu dàhuàn | a major trouble/worry on one's mind
和解 | héjiě | to reconcile; to make peace with (oneself)
水涨船高 | shuǐzhǎng chuángāo | all boats rise with the tide (standards rising)
实用性 | shíyòngxìng | practicality; utility
白皙 | báixī | fair-skinned; pale
围城 | wéichéng | besieged city (a book, referring to the paradox of wanting what others have)
启发 | qǐfā | inspiration; enlightenment; to inspire

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Today I interviewed a friend of mine from Oxford who quit her job in London and is training to become a counsellor ! We talked about the idea of "stop trying to control everything" and "gestalt psychology"...

Read her blog "The Search Within" here!
https://thesearchwithin.substack.com/p/what-happens-when-you-stop-trying

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里程碑 | lǐchéngbēi | milestone
重逢 | chóngféng | to meet again (after a long separation)
近况 | jìnkuàng | recent situation; current state
感悟 | gǎnwù | realization; insight; to come to understand
新鲜出炉 | xīnxian chūlú | fresh out of the oven (fig. newly released)
凑巧 | còuqiǎo | coincidentally; by chance
有感于 | yǒugǎnyú | inspired by; moved by (a certain event or feeling)
实验之年 | shíyàn zhī nián | year of experimentation
运河 | yùnhé | canal
船只 | chuánzhī | boat; vessel
停靠 | tíngkào | to stop (and anchor); to dock
设想 | shèxiǎng | to imagine; to conceive; an assumption
切磋 | qiēcuō | to learn from each other by trading ideas; to exchange views
词不达意 | cí bù dá yì | the words fail to express the idea; inarticulate
切中要害 | qiè zhòng yàohài | to hit the nail on the head; to get to the crux of the matter
绽放 | zhànfàng | to burst forth; to bloom
实验性 | shíyànxìng | experimental
反思 | fǎnsī | to reflect; introspection
调理 | tiáolǐ | to nurse one's health; to look after oneself (or to arrange)
惶恐 | huángkǒng | terrified; panic-stricken
维度 | wéidù | dimension
随心所欲 | suíxīn suǒ yù | to follow one's inclinations; to do as one pleases
矛盾体 | máodùntǐ | contradiction (referring to a person)
冥想 | míngxiǎng | meditation
后果 | hòuguǒ | consequence
完美主义者 | wánměi zhǔyìzhě | perfectionist
好奇心 | hàoqíxīn | curiosity
放开手脚 | fàngkāi shǒujiǎo | to let oneself go; to act without restraint
沉浮 | chénfú | to sink and float (fig. to rise and fall in life)
臣服 | chénfú | to submit to; to surrender
抵抗 | dǐkàng | to resist; resistance
投降 | tóuxiáng | to surrender; to yield
破罐子破摔 | pò guànzi pò shuāi | to smash a cracked pot (fig. to give up on oneself entirely)
消极 | xiāojí | passive; negative
平和 | píhé | peaceful; tranquil; gentle
道家 | dàojiā | Taoist school (of thought)
无为 | wúwéi | non-action (Taoist concept)
自律 | zìlǜ | self-discipline
钻牛角尖 | zuān niújiǎojiān | to split hairs; to get into a dead end (lit. push a cow's horn)
患得患失 | huàndé huànshī | worried about personal gains and losses
内耗 | nèihào | internal consumption (fig. internal friction or mental wear and tear)
焦虑 | jiāolǜ | anxiety; anxious
不确定性 | bù quèdìngxìng | uncertainty
神分析法 | shén fēnxī fǎ | psychoanalysis
崇高 | chónggāo | lofty; sublime; high
自尊 | zìzūn | self-esteem
膨胀 | péngzhàng | to swell; to expand (fig. arrogance)
动物性 | dòngwùxìng | animal nature
结构 | jiégòu | structure; composition
虚妄 | xūwàng | illusion; delusion; emptiness
空虚 | kōngxū | empty; void; hollow (in heart)
虚无缥缈 | xūwú piāomiǎo | vague; ethereal; illusory
妄想 | wàngxiǎng | delusion; vain hope
佛学 | fóxué | Buddhism; Buddhist doctrine
抽象 | chōuxiàng | abstract
疗愈 | liáoyù | healing; to heal
噪音 | zàoyīn | noise
抵触 | dǐchù | to conflict with; to contradict
本质 | běnzhì | essence; nature; inherent quality

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Happyyyyyy new year! The first episode of 2026! I chatted with my friend Sophy about growing up in East Asian families , the pressure from parents to follow a traditional path, and how we both "rebelled". We reflected on the shift in our parent-child relationships and the generational differences in expectations and communication.

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播音 | bōyīn | broadcasting; to announce
译制腔 | yìzhì qiāng | dubbed accent; exaggerated style of voice acting
口头禅 | kǒutóuchán | catchphrase; pet phrase
文本 | wénběn | text; written expression
口语 | kǒuyǔ | spoken language; colloquial
按部就班 | ànbùjiùbān | following the prescribed order; step-by-step
理所应当 | lǐsuǒyīngdāng | as a matter of course; right and proper
催生 | cuīshēng | to urge or rush someone to have a baby
剥离 | bōlí | to strip off; to detach; to separate
汲取 | jíqǔ | to draw; to absorb; to derive (knowledge, etc.)
负担得起 | fùdān de qǐ | can afford
颠倒 | diāndǎo | to turn upside down; inverted
研究生 | yánjiūshēng | graduate student (master's or doctoral)
延雪平 | Yánxuěpíng | Jönköping (city in Sweden)
国际市场营销 | guójì shìchǎng yíngxiāo | international marketing
岔开 | chàkāi | to stray from (the topic); to diverge
诗意 | shīyì | poetic quality; picturesque
意境 | yìjìng | artistic conception; mood
齐备 | qíbèi | complete; well-equipped
低配版 | dīpèibǎn | low-configuration version (of a product)
触屏 | chùpíng | touchscreen
积蓄 | jīxù | savings; to save up
北方人 | běifāngrén | Northerner (in China)
铺路 | pūlù | to pave the road (fig. to create opportunities)
助力 | zhùlì | to help; to support
淘气 | táoqì | naughty; mischievous
压抑 | yāyì | constrained; repressed; feeling frustrated
冻僵 | dòngjiāng | frozen stiff
僵尸 | jiāngshī | zombie; "hopping" vampire (Chinese folklore)
僵持 | jiāngchí | to be at a stalemate; in a deadlock
化解 | huàjiě | to resolve; to dissolve (a conflict)
疲惫 | píbèi | exhausted; weary
调解 | tiáojiě | to mediate; to reconcile
物理距离 | wùlǐ jùlí | physical distance
倾注 | qīngzhù | to pour into; to concentrate (effort, emotion)
执念 | zhíniàn | obsessive focus; persistent attachment
无法释怀 | wúfǎ shìhuái | unable to let go of (emotion, grievance)
负累 | fùlèi | burden; encumbrance
前因后果 | qiányīn hòuguǒ | cause and effect; the whole story
负责任 | fùzérèn | responsible
正面反馈 | zhèngmiàn fǎnkuì | positive feedback
同理心 | tónglǐxīn | empathy
包容 | bāoróng | tolerant; broad-minded
苛刻 | kēkè | harsh; severe; demanding
刻薄 | kèbó | mean; unkind; harsh (words)
初创公司 | chūchuàng gōngsī | startup company
运营官 | yùnyíng guān | operations officer (COO)
亲子关系 | qīnzǐ guānxì | parent-child relationship
社会保障体系 | shèhuì bǎozhàng tǐxì | social security system
养儿防老 | yǎng'ér fánglǎo | raising children to provide for old age
媳妇熬成婆 | xífù áo chéng pó | a daughter-in-law eventually becomes a mother-in-law (suggests suffering hardship leads to authority)
模范 | mófàn | model; example
资讯 | zīxùn | information
紧迫 | jǐnpò | urgent; pressing
变量 | biànliàng | variable
焦虑不安 | jiāolǜ bù'ān | anxious and uneasy
阶段性 | jiēduànxìng | phased; staged
摩擦 | mócā | friction (fig. conflict)
涵养 | hányǎng | self-restraint; good manners; cultivation
韧性 | rènxìng | resilience; tenacity
冲突 | chōngtū | conflict
延后 | yánhòu | to postpone; to defer
翅膀硬了 | chìbǎng yìng le | wings have hardened (fig. grown up; independent)
代价 | dàijià | price; cost

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I just moved into a new house!! So I talked with Renfei about "mysig" Sweden winters, and how we navigated the confusing world of renting houses in Sweden. Also, packing, unpacking, and letting go stuff is so hard!

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压抑 | yāyì | depressed; oppressed; restraining (emotions)
执念 | zhíniàn | obsessive focus; persistent attachment (to an idea)
慰藉 | wèijiè | to console; to comfort; consolation
偏远 | piānyuǎn | remote; far away
植物园 | zhíwùyuán | botanical garden
购物中心 | gòuwù zhōngxīn | shopping center; mall
阳台 | yángtái | balcony
涌进 | yǒngjìn | to pour into; to stream into
宠物 | chǒngwù | pet
推着 | tuīzhe | to push (a stroller, cart, etc.)
浓厚 | nónghòu | dense; strong (atmosphere, feeling); rich (color)
合约 | héyuē | contract; agreement
特殊 | tèshū | special; particular; unusual
一手 | yīshǒu | first-hand (rental from the original owner/company)
二手 | èrshǒu | second-hand (sublet)
转租 | zhuǎnzū | to sublease; to rent out (a leased property)
续签 | xùqiān | to renew (a contract)
复杂 | fùzá | complicated; complex
隐约 | yǐnyuē | faint; vague; indistinct
失去 | shīqù | to lose (something)
资格 | zīgé | qualifications; eligibility
牟利 | móulì | to seek profit; to gain profit
投资 | tóuzī | to invest; investment
相比 | xiāngbǐ | compared to; in comparison
地下室 | dìxiàshì | basement
客房 | kèfáng | guest room
联排别墅 | liánpái biéshù | townhouse (terraced house)
独立 | dúlì | independent; standing alone
绰绰有余 | chuòchuòyǒuyú | more than enough; ample
隔音 | géyīn | sound insulation; soundproofing
打理 | dǎlǐ | to take care of; to manage
隐私性 | yǐnsīxìng | privacy
抱怨 | bàoyuàn | to complain
紧密团结 | jǐnmì tuánjié | closely united; tightly knit
留一个好印象 | liú yīgè hǎo yìnxiàng | to leave a good impression
潦草 | lǎocǎo | (writing) messy; careless; hurried
拉近距离 | lājìn jùlí | to narrow the gap; to become closer
仪式感 | yíshìgǎn | sense of ceremony
痛苦 | tòngkǔ | painful; suffering
意想不到 | yìxiǎng bùdào | unexpected; unforeseen
卫生检查 | wèishēng jiǎnchá | health inspection; hygiene check
打扫 | dǎsǎo | to clean; to sweep
清洁公司 | qīngjié gōngsī | cleaning company
一劳永逸 | yī láo yǒng yì | to gain lasting peace through one effort
担惊受怕 | dānjīng shòupà | to be terrified; in a state of anxiety
罚款 | fákuǎn | (impose a) fine; penalty
规则 | guīzé | regular; standardized; rule
资深 | zīshēn | senior; experienced
空隙 | kòngxì | gap; space; crack
崩溃 | bēngkuì | to collapse; to break down (emotionally)
断舍离 | duànshělí | minimalism; decluttering (lit. cut off, give up, separate)
跨国 | kuàguó | transnational; international
清仓甩卖 | qīngcāng shuǎimài | clearance sale
倾向于 | qīngxiàng yú | to be inclined to; to prefer
接受度 | jiēshòudù | acceptance level; degree of acceptance
相符 | xiāngfú | to match; to correspond
复古 | fùgǔ | retro; vintage
纯羊毛 | chúnyángmáo | pure wool
锅碗瓢盆 | guō wǎn piáo pén | pots and pans; cooking utensils
工作效率 | gōngzuò xiàolǜ | work efficiency
多巴胺 | duōbā'àn | dopamine

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Our 100th episode where I will answer ALLLL of your questions!!

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唱独角戏 | chàng dújiǎoxì | to perform a monologue; to operate alone
有问必答 | yǒuwèn bì dá | to answer every question asked (ask me anything)
自言自语 | zìyán zì yǔ | to talk to oneself; to think aloud
口误 | kǒuwù | slip of the tongue; lapsus linguae
结结巴巴 | jiējiē bābā | to stammer; to stutter
爱情语言 | àiqíng yǔyán | love language
肢体接触 | zhītǐ jiēchù | physical touch
无所事事 | wú suǒ shì shì | to have nothing to do; to be idle
甜言蜜语 | tiányán mì yǔ | sweet talk; honeyed words
细分 | xìfēn | to subdivide; to segment
增进彼此 | zēngjìn bǐcǐ | to enhance/promote mutual understanding
心坎上 | xīnkǎn shang | deep in one's heart; to one's liking
归根结底 | guīgēn jiédǐ | in the final analysis; fundamentally
孤单 | gūdān | lonely; lonesome
生理期 | shēnglǐqī | menstrual period
荷尔蒙 | hé'ěrméng | hormone
情绪的波动 | qíngxù de bōdòng | emotional fluctuation
暴躁 | bàozào | irritable; grumpy; violent
月经 | yuèjīng | menstruation; period
大姨妈 | dàyímā | big aunt (slang for menstrual period)
坦然接受 | tǎnrán jiēshòu | to accept with composure/peace of mind
忠实听众 | zhōngshí tīngzhòng | loyal listener
坚持下去 | jiānchí xiàqù | to persist; to stick with it
半途而废 | bàntú ér fèi | to give up halfway; to leave unfinished
来源 | láiyuán | source; origin
启发 | qǐfā | to enlighten; inspiration
口音 | kǒuyīn | accent
风味 | fēngwèi | flavor; distinctive style
撒娇 | sājiāo | to act spoiled; to act cute/coy
软糯 | ruǎn nuò | soft and glutinous (used figuratively for voice/sound)
儿化音 | érhuàyīn | erhua sound; 'r' suffixation (in Mandarin)
掌握 | zhǎngwò | to grasp; to master; to control
书面的 | shūmiàn de | literary; written (as opposed to spoken)
难度适当 | nándù shìdàng | appropriate level of difficulty
捐赠 | juānzèng | to donate
迈入 | màirù | to stride into; to step into
忐忑 | tǎntè | uneasy; apprehensive; anxious
心灵鸡汤 | xīnlíng jītāng | soul chicken soup; inspirational stories/quotes
冥想 | míngxiǎng | meditation
虚无缥缈 | xūwú piāomiǎo | illusory; ethereal; vague
形而上 | xíng'érshàng | metaphysical; abstract
反义词 | fǎnyìcí | antonym
侧重于 | cèzhòng yú | to focus on; to lay particular stress on
社区建设 | shèqū jiànshè | community building
扎根 | zhāgēn | to take root; to settle down
优渥 | yōuwò | generous; favorable (conditions)
安居乐业 | ānjū lèyè | live in peace and work happily (idiom)
容错率 | róngcuòlǜ | fault tolerance rate; margin for error
沉浸 | chénjìn | to immerse; to be steeped in
随遇而安 | suí yù ér ān | to be content with one's lot; to take things as they come (idiom)
永久居留 | yǒngjiǔ jūliú | permanent residency
功臣 | gōngchén | a person who has made outstanding contributions
语言伙伴 | yǔyán huǒbàn | language partner

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