<p>You think you’re “chill”? You’re not. You’re avoiding. This video is for the ones who’ve been praised for being easy, low maintenance, unbothered—when really, you’ve just learned to bury your needs. We’re unpacking the truth about emotional self-abandonment, the silence you’ve mistaken for strength, and why your “cool girl” persona is costing you real connection.</p>

You think you’re “chill”? You’re not. You’re avoiding. This video is for the ones who’ve been praised for being easy, low maintenance, unbothered—when really, you’ve just learned to bury your needs. We’re unpacking the truth about emotional self-abandonment, the silence you’ve mistaken for strength, and why your “cool girl” persona is costing you real connection.

You Confuse Emotional Avoidance with Being ‘Low Maintenance’

Hi, I'm Pearl Ada. I’m a wild bird and passionate babe. As a kid, I had a lot of ideas, and as an adult, I still have a lot of ideas! This is where I bring the ones I can’t fit into my room to life. I’m the viral creator of the NeuroCosmic playlist, and my series “This Might Be A Spell” is born of my propensity to vomit advice with a touch of magic, nuance, and chaos. I’m an artist, writer, actor, and future superstar. Expect casual, serious, and seriously unserious chats, plus loving bluntness about whatever’s swirling in your head. Come on in…

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Hi, I'm Pearl Ada. I’m a wild bird and passionate babe. As a kid, I had a lot of ideas, and as an adult, I still have a lot of ideas! This is where I bring the ones I can’t fit into my room to life. I’m the viral creator of the NeuroCosmic playlist, and my series “This Might Be A Spell” is born of my propensity to vomit advice with a touch of magic, nuance, and chaos. I’m an artist, writer, actor, and future superstar. Expect casual, serious, and seriously unserious chats, plus loving bluntness about whatever’s swirling in your head. Come on in…

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