When your husband chooses infidelity, it’s easy to internalize the betrayal and wonder, “What did I do wrong?”

Today, I'm exposing one of the most damaging lies betrayed wives believe: that his betrayal means you failed.

I'm unpacking why infidelity is never the wife’s fault, what’s truly at the root of his choices, and how societal and even church-driven messages have wrongly placed the burden of a husband’s sexual sobriety on the wife’s shoulders. You’ll discover the emotional and spiritual damage this belief causes—and how to begin healing your mindset, releasing shame, and reclaiming your worth.

If you’ve ever wrestled with guilt, shame, or self-blame after betrayal, this is the episode your heart needs.

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