The first time we encounter narcissistic rage, it can be terrifying and extremely uncomfortable. But once we recognise it, it loses a lot of its power. It can be easy to spend time reviewing events wondering if, perhaps, the other person had a point and we did something that warranted this stream of abuse. In this episode I take one specific example and analyse it for your benefit. I give an overview of the context, I run through the events as descriptively as possible, explain my mindset and try to understand the other person’s convoluted logic. Do you think they were reasonable? How would you have reacted?