It's our 100th episode of Playing with Fire!

This podcast was intended to be 13 episodes to cover each chapter of Joli's first book... and here we are with 100 episodes in and feeling more excited about this shared project than we ever dreamed.

Every relationship benefits from a shared purpose (see episode 65), but so often, the shared project defaults to householding and/or kids. 

Proactively creating shared purpose beyond the banal is an option. For us, it's been a magnificent addition to our connection. Especially as our kids grow up and we face a (sort-of) empty nest during the college years- it was looking easier to turn to other relationships for creative, vulnerable fun. And then Playing with Fire was born.

This episode is highly personal and also designed to be inspirational. 

We did what we do whenever we are having a relationship retrospective: one part analysis (Ken's a scrum guy, of course), one part gratitude, and one part weird. I love adding the weird- why even bother being alive if not to be weird?

Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com