Too many women get stuck in toxic dating cycles because we give men the kind of love we wish they would give us, instead of paying attention to the love they’re actually showing us.

In this video, I break down why women need to:

• Stop projecting their love onto men
• Start using discernment (judgment is not cruelty—it’s protection)
• Stop handing out endless ‘benefit of the doubt’
• And start treating men according to their character, not yours

If you’ve ever asked yourself, ‘Why do I keep attracting the same type of man?’ this video will shift everything about the way you date.

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