You’ve probably heard the phrase “decenter men” — but what does that really mean?

In this video, I break down what decentering men actually looks like in real life — and why it’s not about hating men or avoiding relationships. It’s about re-centering yourself.

We’ll talk about:

✨ The real definition of “decentering men” and who coined the phrase (Charlie Taylor)

✨ Why it’s a lifestyle, not a temporary phase

✨ The challenges women face when learning to live this way — and how to work through them

✨ The common misconceptions (like “you can’t want love and decenter men”)

✨ Why women were conditioned to center men in the first place

✨ And how to date while decentering men

This isn’t about becoming “anti-men.”

It’s about becoming pro-you.

You can want love and still decenter men.

You can be soft and still have boundaries.

You can date and still live from your center.

Because once you make peace your priority — everything changes.

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