Inner Work With MaryAnn Walker: Stop People Pleasing and Start Living For You!

110: Part 2: How Does Victim Energy Show Up For Helpers, Healers & People Pleasers?


Listen Later

Send us a text


Last week, we learned about the drama triangle and the empowerment dynamic, specifically focusing on victim/creator energy.

This week, we explore these concepts through the lens of helpers, healers, and people pleasers.

Victim energy can show up in the following ways:

  1. Self-Sacrifice Leading to Resentment: This occurs when we sacrifice so much that we become angry and resentful toward the very people we want to love and serve. We may attempt to make them our villains to portray ourselves as victims.
  2. Seeking External Validation: Depending on others for validation can indicate a struggle with internal validation. We remain in victimhood because our self-worth becomes conditional on others' praise and validation.
  3. Fear of Conflict: Fear of conflict can prevent us from showing up authentically, limiting genuine connections with others.
  4. Overcommitment: Saying "yes" to everyone else means saying "no" to ourselves, leaving us feeling victimized by others' requests.
  5. Guilt and Obligation: Acting out of guilt and obligation can lead to feelings of entrapment. We become victims of our own sense of obligation while accusing others of being the source of our entrapment.

Shifting from victim to creator energy involves recognizing personal power, setting boundaries, and acting from a place of autonomy and self-respect. This transformation enables people to take control of their lives, fostering healthier relationships and a more balanced emotional state.

To learn more about the empowerment dynamic, click here: https://amzn.to/3V7hmxH

To work with MaryAnn, click here: https://maryannwalker.life/contact-me

To inquire about tickets to The Energy Healing Conference email MaryAnn at [email protected] 

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Inner Work With MaryAnn Walker: Stop People Pleasing and Start Living For You!By MaryAnn Walker: Life Coach for Empaths, Highly Sensitive People & People Pleasers

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

22 ratings


More shows like Inner Work With MaryAnn Walker: Stop People Pleasing and Start Living For You!

View all
The School of Greatness by Lewis Howes

The School of Greatness

21,108 Listeners

The Life Coach School Podcast by Brooke Castillo

The Life Coach School Podcast

8,828 Listeners

Better Than Happy by Jody Moore

Better Than Happy

5,662 Listeners

The Mindset Mentor by Rob Dial

The Mindset Mentor

13,480 Listeners

The Terri Cole Show by Terri Cole

The Terri Cole Show

1,369 Listeners

The Virtual Couch by Tony Overbay LMFT

The Virtual Couch

649 Listeners

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett by DOAC

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

7,013 Listeners

The Lisa Show by BYUradio

The Lisa Show

390 Listeners

On Purpose with Jay Shetty by iHeartPodcasts

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

26,964 Listeners

Huberman Lab by Scicomm Media

Huberman Lab

28,531 Listeners

The Inner Child Podcast by Gloria Zhang, MA

The Inner Child Podcast

500 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Glennon Doyle and Audacy

We Can Do Hard Things

41,405 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

19,373 Listeners

Sleep Magic: Sleep Hypnosis & Meditation for Sleep Podcast by Sleepiest: Hypnosis for Sleep Podcast

Sleep Magic: Sleep Hypnosis & Meditation for Sleep Podcast

1,450 Listeners

The David Ghiyam Podcast by David Ghiyam

The David Ghiyam Podcast

627 Listeners