After the Affair

114. Is Porn Even Cheating? with Porn Addiction Coach, Matt Smith


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What counts as cheating? For some, it’s clear-cut. For others, it’s a grey area. In this thought-provoking episode, I sit down with porn addiction coach Matt Smith to explore where we draw the line when it comes to pornography and betrayal.

We dive into:

  • The blurry boundaries of infidelity and porn consumption.
  • Why shame and secrecy often fuel addiction.
  • How to start breaking free from cycles of guilt and dependency.
  • The emotional impact of porn on relationships, and what it means for you.
  • Whether you’ve experienced betrayal, struggled with shame, or just want to understand your own boundaries better, this episode is for you.

    Matt Smith helps men overcome porn addiction and regain control of their lives. Drawing from his own experiences and years of coaching, Matt offers practical tools and kind support. He encourages his clients to understand their urges and find lasting freedom.


    Matt enjoys guiding men as they uncover the reasons behind their challenges. He helps them break unhealthy patterns and create a life full of confidence and clarity. He believes recovery is not just about stopping a habit; it is about becoming who they want to be.

    Links & Resources Mentioned:

    • Website: https://www.mattsmithcoaching.com/
    • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mattsmithcoaching
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattsmithcoaching/
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      Connect with Luke:

      • Website: www.lifecoachluke.com
      • Instagram: @mylifecoachluke
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