There was a time I thought healing meant “feeling better.”

So I tracked everything. Every flutter in my chest. Every late-night spiral. Every moment I didn’t feel calm.

If I had a good day? I assumed I was finally making progress. If I had a bad one? Clearly, I was back at square one. 

But that’s the trap — and it’s exactly why so many people stay stuck. 

We’re taught to measure healing by how we feel. But the truth is that some of the most powerful signs that your nervous system is healing have nothing to do with feeling good. They're subtle. Quiet. Easy to miss.

And if you don’t know what to look for, you might think you’re broken — when in reality, your body is doing exactly what it’s meant to.

In this episode, I’m sharing 12 signs you’re healing that no one talks about — the ones you can’t always track in a journal or check off in a symptom app. They’re not flashy. But they’re the real indicators your body is rewiring itself.

Let this episode be the mirror that reflects how far you’ve already come.

Tune in — because if you’re still measuring healing by how you feel, it’s time to start looking deeper.

Key Takeaways:

Intro (00:00)

#1 Your friends and family will notice you're getting better before you do (01:25)

#2 You stop calling everything a setback (02:32)

#3 You’ve stopped hunting for new techniques (03:18)

#4 You start feeling every emotion to its completion (03:48)

#5 You no longer feel like a victim of your symptoms (04:21)

#6 You stop waiting to feel better before taking action (05:02)

#7 You’ve stopped reacting to every thought (06:16)

#8 You've stopped measuring your healing by how you feel (06:58)

#9 You just start laughing again (07:20)

#10 You can sit with the wave of panic and know it will pass (08:29)

#11 You still feel symptoms, but don't rush to fix them (08:59) 

#12 You realize healing isn't about going back to who you were before (09:24)

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