It's All About Balance

129. Real Talk—why most women self-sabotage right before success


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Ever feel like you’re so close to your goal, but suddenly you start pulling back—or even sabotaging yourself? You’re not alone, and you’re definitely not broken. In this episode, I’m getting real about why self-sabotage shows up right before your next big breakthrough, and how you can finally break free from the patterns that keep you stuck.

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  • Why self-sabotage happens especially when you’re starting to see real progress
  • How fear of success can sneak in and keep you from your next level
  • The exact steps to recognize, address, and overcome the patterns keeping you stuck on “start over Monday” mode
  • Why community and accountability are the fast-track to lasting change

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Episode Breakdown

00:00 Exciting Announcement: Balanced Babe Academy Reopening

02:39 Introduction to the Podcast

04:01 Understanding Self-Sabotage

13:53 The Fear of Success

23:15 Understanding the Fear of Success

23:41 Managing Fat Loss Expectations

25:49 Identifying Self-Sabotage Patterns

29:17 Breaking the Cycle of Self-Sabotage

33:59 The Importance of Support and Accountability

36:54 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

 

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