Get Your Goal Body

129. Real Talk—why most women self-sabotage right before success


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Ever feel like you’re so close to your goal, but suddenly you start pulling back—or even sabotaging yourself? You’re not alone, and you’re definitely not broken. In this episode, I’m getting real about why self-sabotage shows up right before your next big breakthrough, and how you can finally break free from the patterns that keep you stuck.

I’m also sharing the biggest news of the summer: Balanced Babe Academy is reopening with our Red Hot Summer Fat Loss Accelerator! This is your chance to step into a high-commitment, high-support space packed with energy, accountability, and results (hello, main character summer!).

We’ll dig into:

  • Why self-sabotage happens especially when you’re starting to see real progress
  • How fear of success can sneak in and keep you from your next level
  • The exact steps to recognize, address, and overcome the patterns keeping you stuck on “start over Monday” mode
  • Why community and accountability are the fast-track to lasting change

Whether you spiral during busy times, find yourself “falling off” when things get good, or just want to understand your own mindset better—this episode is your invitation to break the cycle, reclaim your power, and rise into your most confident, unstoppable self.

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Episode Breakdown

00:00 Exciting Announcement: Balanced Babe Academy Reopening

02:39 Introduction to the Podcast

04:01 Understanding Self-Sabotage

13:53 The Fear of Success

23:15 Understanding the Fear of Success

23:41 Managing Fat Loss Expectations

25:49 Identifying Self-Sabotage Patterns

29:17 Breaking the Cycle of Self-Sabotage

33:59 The Importance of Support and Accountability

36:54 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

 

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