Mediation doesn’t have to suck—but walking in unprepared absolutely does. In this solo power-packed episode, Andrea and Morgan deliver the exact roadmap you need before entering mediation. Whether it’s your parenting plan, finances, or both on the table, this episode walks you through every question to ask your lawyer, how to mentally prepare, and the secret negotiation strategies that’ll keep you calm, confident, and in control.

What you’ll learn:

• The 4-part strategy to prep for mediation like a pro
• What makes a bad mediator—and how to avoid one
• Why your first offer will probably suck (and that’s okay)
• What “sweeteners” are and how to use them to get what you want
• Tips to regulate your emotions and stay focused during mediation
• Whether attorney-assisted mediation is worth it
• How to build your own mediation “cheat sheet”
• Why mediation saves you time, money, and sanity (even if it fails)

Burning Questions Answered:

• “How do I know if what I’m asking for is realistic?”
• “What if my ex throws something crazy at me?”
• “Do I need to get the mediator to like me?”
• “Can I call my lawyer during mediation?”
• “What happens if we can’t agree on anything?”

Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major and expensive mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course

Our Family Wizard is another fantasitc resource for those who need help navigating the "fun" world of coparenting. Head to this landing page to see how we work closely with them to support our listeners! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck

Friends, slide into our dms, we love love love hearing from you. We are always here to listen and help in any way we can. You've got this and we've got you.

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