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Arguments that start small often end in deep emotional disconnect. In this heartfelt episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores how seemingly minor issues can spiral into major conflicts—and how you can change that.

He shares three simple but powerful tips that will help you manage conflict better, communicate more effectively and reconnect with your partner in a meaningful way.

Key Takeaways:

-Conflict doesn’t have to damage your relationship—when handled well, it can actually bring you closer together.

-Trying to “win” arguments only leads to both partners losing; the goal is mutual understanding, not victory.

-Active listening and asking thoughtful, open-ended questions can break patterns of miscommunication and foster deeper connection.

-Small, intentional acts of appreciation and quality time go a long way in keeping a relationship strong and loving.

-Making your relationship a priority—despite life’s busyness—helps build emotional intimacy and trust.

-Even couples on the brink of separation can rebuild connection with the right tools and willingness to grow together.

Links referenced in this episode:

angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger management

angersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Breaking The Anger Cycle

angersecrets.com/course — Enroll in The Complete Anger Management System