How Not To Suck At Divorce

165. Crucial Action Steps When Divorcing an Abusive Partner (And a Story That Will Help You Understand Cohersive Control)


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Andrea and Morgan talk with Laura Richards, host of That’s Where I’m At podcast, about navigating divorce when abuse is part of the marriage. Laura shares her story of leaving a relationship that looked perfect from the outside but was filled with covert control, manipulation, and emotional harm behind closed doors. Alongside Laura’s experience, Andrea and Morgan offer practical and legal guidance for protecting yourself during this challenging time.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How to identify and safeguard important items, financial records, valuables, and sentimental possessions before they can be taken or hidden.
  • The importance of creating a legally sound safety plan for yourself and your children, even if the abuse has never been physical.
  • Why you should expect the early stages of divorce to be the most difficult, and how to prepare mentally and emotionally for that period.
  • How control can shift during divorce and the subtle ways an ex may try to manipulate or intimidate you.
  • Why having your own attorney matters, even if mediation feels amicable.
  • The role of supportive communities, therapy, and trusted resources in rebuilding your confidence and moving forward.

Connect with Laura:

Website: https://www.thatswhereimatpodcast.com/

Podcast: https://www.thatswhereimatpodcast.com/episodes/

Instagram: @thatswhereimatpodcast


Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major and expensive mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course

Our Family Wizard is another fantasitc resource for those who need help navigating the "fun" world of coparenting. Head to this landing page to see how we work closely with them to support our listeners! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck


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